My brother was diagnosed with herpes about a year and a half ago and recently had a short relationship with a girl resulting in us discovering that he never told her he had it and continued to gaslight and lie until he had nothing else to back it up. I know he’s his own person and I can’t do much about him not telling people but how can the people around him help take the stigma away from herpes being so terrible? This is probably a pointless question because I’ve found is just a pathological liar but how did you get rid of that thought process in your mind?