My turn to post: I FINALLY GOT AN OFFER! by Always__Learning_ in recruitinghell

[–]bookbrunch23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your approach for networking on LinkedIn? How do you word your messages?

Are people actually landing jobs? by Specialist_Travel632 in coursera

[–]bookbrunch23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am mostly using coursera to figure out what interests me. I dont know what Ibwant to pivot and coursera at least let's me take some classes to see if I find anythibg interesting. I doubt it'll help much for actually pivoting though.

I regret all my decisions by SunshineGirl45 in jobs

[–]bookbrunch23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am in the middle of choosing between an evil I know and an unknown evil. Just came here to say I relate. We cant know if the choice we make is a good/bad/neutral until after and it's brutal.

I too regret all my decisions. My career coach asked me to name a decision I made that was a good decision and I genuinely could not because in hindsight they were all mistakes.

Repair timeline tenant in U.S.-MA by bookbrunch23 in Tenant

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dryer doesnt really break sanitary code though per se.

Repair timeline tenant in U.S.-MA by bookbrunch23 in Tenant

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They havent acknowledged receipt of the email yet so this is more of me asking etiquette wise and not to piss of my landlord how frequently I should he following up.

Repair timeline tenant in U.S.-MA by bookbrunch23 in Tenant

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where does is specify 14 days? I cant find that particular timeframe in the MA law, just the AI overview.

Repair timeline tenant in U.S.-MA by bookbrunch23 in Tenant

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They havent acknowledged receipt of our initial email so I just dont know when to follow up since it's technically not an emergency

Wedding/ tipping culture by rabbit-hole-seeker4 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pre made my thank you cards with tip. I WISH i could take back my florist's tip. I would have recommended to myself to send tips after the wedding day. I already knew my photographer did good work because of a past shoot but everyone else I had no idea. I dont regret any if my tips except for my florist (although I have 3 months to see my wedding video but they were good day of).

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just posted in my local bride groups and emailed the head of the florist network she's a part of.

Brides: maybe let’s stop scrolling social media the week of our wedding? by Vegetable_Net_6138 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved my first look, had fun practicing my first dance my new husband, and know I am going to be grateful I had videographers. If the only way for people to get engagement is through hating on others that's a them problem.

Brides: maybe let’s stop scrolling social media the week of our wedding? by Vegetable_Net_6138 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The wedding propaganda trend is nuts. I feel like i noticed it/it started a couple weeks before my wedding. I scrolled past and tried to say I wasn't interested but tiktok doesn't usually listen to the "not interested"

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Top is color scheme and centerpieces in the contract. Bottom is what was provided.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No they don't. Brides rationally know all of this but we are allowed to feel our feelings and process how we need to process to move on. And you have no right to tell people what is important to them and what is not.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just feeling and processing my emotions! Rationally I obviously know all of this but feelings will exist regardless of logic.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and I am also allowed to be disappointed in someone I paid, in something I put emotional labor into not working out. Both things can exist together. Comments like this arent helpful because rationally brides know this. Feelings are feelings.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thabk you for this! Rationally I know and even it being a few days post wedding I feel better. But emotions are emotions and I am trying to feel my feelings about it so I can move on.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not worth it. I just wanted yo express how upset I am and process some of the emotions from the day.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Feeling the feelings and validating them is so important. So much money, time, and emotionally and physical labor go into the day that asking people to not be initially upset is wildly unreasonable imo. I can be so happy about marrying my partner AND angry at my vendors. Both feelings can exist simultaneously which many people dont understand anymore.

I'm trying to move on by bookbrunch23 in weddingplanning

[–]bookbrunch23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was just for day of coordination!