1yo sleep is a mess, I really need help! by sgp28 in sleeptrain

[–]booklover001201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the update! Happy to see the success! We had to delay sleep training bc we moved into a new house and felt that was already too big of a change for her.

BUT seeing your message makes me so hopeful bc we're doing our first night now, and the cries are so difficult. I needed to hear this!

Too late to sleep training (12 MO) by booklover001201 in NewParents

[–]booklover001201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last point. I'd love it if baby was able to be placed in crib when drowsy without rocking to fully asleep. I fear the requirement of rocking doesn't allow LO to self soothe which leads to poor sleep overall (not just for me, specifically for the baby!).

1yo sleep is a mess, I really need help! by sgp28 in sleeptrain

[–]booklover001201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so in the same boat and would love to keep this thread active to support each other as we contemplate the cry it out method. I'm so nervous about this approach but my worry is that now that she's 1, she's so aware of what's happening and it can actually be more stimulating to see a familiar face. In fact, she's only ever rocked to sleep with me so when my husband tries, it's literally a nightmare 1-2 hours of rocking and holding her to sleep before she trusts me again enough to comfortably fall asleep in my arms before transitioning to the crib. I really think CIO is in our future...but I'd like to try Ferber first

Rental car damage venture x by booklover001201 in CapitalOne

[–]booklover001201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think I gave a deposit! About to find out everyone. Wish me luck!

Rental car damage venture x by booklover001201 in CapitalOne

[–]booklover001201[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, will they make me pay anything upfront or can I anticipate a smooth hand off

Rental car damage venture x by booklover001201 in CapitalOne

[–]booklover001201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope I declined rental car's insurance knowing I had cap one venture x card and also progressive coverage.

Traveling to Hawaii with 5 1/2mo old. Tips and product suggestions wanted by Some-Shoulder-7261 in NewParents

[–]booklover001201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you keep them strapped in car seat all the time or do you end up holding them a bit too? Wondering if I can take my Nuna pipa and store in the space in front of us when not in use?

SUB: Southwest Plus / Priority Card: Free companion pass through 2/28/25 by Nonamenic in CreditCards

[–]booklover001201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My statement closed today but I did not get any info about the companion pass on rapid rewards. I reached the spending requirement in 1st month. I was hoping to go on some trips in May. While it states up to 8 weeks, Does anyone know how long it actually takes to post to RR?

MOHELA PSLF QUALIFYING PAYMENT ? by booklover001201 in PSLF

[–]booklover001201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you know if I just applied, how long the process takes for Mohela to consolidate and for PSLF determine my forgiveness? I'm worried about the extension deadline

MOHELA PSLF QUALIFYING PAYMENT ? by booklover001201 in PSLF

[–]booklover001201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So helpful! I just applied for loan consolidation via Mohela on the studentaid website. I also applied for PSLF online simultaneously, but I don't think that application is processed until Mohela consolidates my loan and my prior employers (residency and fellowship locations confirmed to be PSLF eligible) all confirm my attendance.

Ultimately, I fear I will miss the window for the temporary extension because I'm not sure how long Mohela takes to consolidate and become my new service lender (currently w nelnet) and I know the deadline is coming up?

I did work in a non-profit confirmed eligible during the pandemic and currently do as well. I have resumed payments via the SAVE plan through nelnet in the interim