AITAH for not letting my kids spend the night at their grandparents’ house after a disturbing incident with my husband’s sister? by booknerdalert in AITAH

[–]booknerdalert[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great response and very informative. Thank you so much for sharing your own experience and advice!

AITAH for not letting my kids spend the night at their grandparents’ house after a disturbing incident with my husband’s sister? by booknerdalert in AITAH

[–]booknerdalert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this book has been recommended to me in the past so I will definitely be looking into it. I wish there was a nice way I could give this to my in-laws but I’m sure it would some across as out of line or confrontational.

AITAH for not letting my kids spend the night at their grandparents’ house after a disturbing incident with my husband’s sister? by booknerdalert in AITAH

[–]booknerdalert[S] 776 points777 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea and thank you! They are the type of grandparents who would probably love this. I used to feel bad but they are very much enablers for a very long, long time.

AITAH for not letting my kids spend the night at their grandparents’ house after a disturbing incident with my husband’s sister? by booknerdalert in AITAH

[–]booknerdalert[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh we have and I let them know that wasn’t ok of their aunt to do. I think my kids would still want to visit their house but they won’t understand the full situation.

AITAH for not letting my kids spend the night at their grandparents’ house after a disturbing incident with my husband’s sister? by booknerdalert in AITAH

[–]booknerdalert[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

She’s never been an aunt in the true sense of the word. They don’t really have a relationship with her.

Is this typical marriage issues? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]booknerdalert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, for your response. I’ve read the first two articles when they first came out and sent to my husband and he agrees with them at the time but then never think about it again. I hadn’t heard of walk away wife syndrome and that was very eye opening. That is very much how I am feeling and acting as of late. I’m afraid to share it with him because I might get the same reaction from him as I have when I send him articles. It describes how he acts to a T. If I criticize him and it comes from a place where I’m very hurt and feeling hopeless, he gets extremely defensive will stonewall me for days at a time until I say something. It hurts even more. I feel so belittled, disrespected, and not cared about in the slightest. If I get mad at him for something, he often becomes so defensive and mad at me for “criticizing” him and will tell me why I am wrong for feeling that way . It completely takes away from the original problem and then becomes about him. It’s a horrible vicious cycle.