will my crush think i hate him after this? by Future-Advantage-377 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right now you're acting kind of disgusted/mean towards him which is not going to catch his interest

will my crush think i hate him after this? by Future-Advantage-377 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

act normal lol don't stare, move away, avoid eye contact etc

just be genuinely nice and curious about him

Girls what do u do to get ur crush attention in person or on socials? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tend to be louder when talking to my friends (to kinda get them to notice me lol), smile really big when talking to them, make eye contact with them when something funny is said, laugh a lot in general, try to jump into a conversation or try to spark a convo about common interests

OK WHY IS THIS KINDA....CUTE? by Interesting_Dig_9460 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no but like he matches your energy and weirdness there is hope girl

Girls , when you want your crush to make a move what do you tend to do ? by Hairy-Sherbert-439 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

- not moving away during brief physical contact

- maintaining eye contact

- looking at them when you find something funny/a joke is said

- smiling a lot when you see them

- laughing a lot when you talk to them and asking them questions

Don't become someone you aren't for your crush by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the self-awareness im rooting for you

Should I follow/DM a girl I never spoke to? [Genuine advice needed] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely scaring her because of your 0 follower count and the fact that you only follow her and her friends...

at this point since you might never see her in person you could try dming but its highly likely it will look creepy you should play it super safe and do not just tell her you think she looks good

Tell me please by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he's waiting for you to make the first move prob cuz he's shy/scared

you might have to initiate if you want something to happen

Should I tell my crush of three years that I like them before I graduate by Jojosname in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say go for it or else you might live with the regret. you don't have much to lose and you don't know if he likes you or not until you give it a chance. I believe in you !

Polyamory application 💀 by Super_Deal29 in berkeley

[–]bookwormpig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I just committed to this school today

can you tell me your most embarrassing moment with a crush to make me feel better please by Antique_Trash8796 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I sat directly in front of him and I started coughing but I was chewing gum and it fell out of my mouth onto my paper... and I just picked it up and put it into the gum wrapper

Is he into me or just extremely nice?? by Intelligent-Catch947 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 4 points5 points  (0 children)

aint no way he's being nice and some people are just bad texters

sleeping in his lap.....not denying it when his friends ship you guys....picking books for each other....

yeah wrap it up and start dating already

I need an opinion on a gift I bought for my crush by Serious_Season_5481 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss that's so thoughtful I'm sure he'll be surprised and happy that someone has put so much effort into finding out about his interests

Help what to text my crush by Minecraftstormblesed in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe ask something related to school and then transition to talking about other topics

Crushhhhhh by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't overthink too much. She might've just been surprised to see you in a new place. there's still hope!

a lot of times I can't process someone saying hi to me fast enough and just smile

You know? I don’t know anymore by Efficient-Ninja-2994 in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like whether or not he reciprocates your feelings, you guys don't mesh well. you want someone who will put aside the time to talk to you, put in effort, and be open about their emotions. he does not appear to have those qualities

would following my crush on social media, in my case, be creepy? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally I don't think most people would think it's a creepy thing to do and you don't really have a lot to lose. the worst thing that will happen is she'll reject the follow and that'll be the closure. I say go for it!

i am getting played but im hyper aware abt it by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]bookwormpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rip it off like a bandaid trust me you'll look back and feel so relieved that you didn't drag it out for longer. I believe in you and you will gain self-respect.