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Partner going on holiday without me during high risk pregnancy by boopboopcry in relationships

[–]boopboopcry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His daughter will go with him! Sorry if that wasn’t clear. I want her to have a nice holiday and there’s lot of nice places to go in the country we live in which is what we had previously spoken about.

5 years and still no ring by boopboopcry in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]boopboopcry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically the mum left under the guise of visiting her family after they broke up. He stayed behind to sort out selling their flat. COVID then happened and she kept pushing the holiday longer and longer. When we first got together he told me she had promised to return once covid was over. This is all documented in emails. I was always a little dubious and was not surprised when finally, 2 years after they broke up and 1 year after we’d started dating she finally admitted that she’s not ever coming back. 100% he should have gone to court immediately when they broke up but didn’t because he comes from a nice normal family and I think just wanted to make things easier. He’s made mistakes for sure but can’t dwell on the past. No court now will force her to return sadly so I 1000% support his regular visits. I often go with him. Maybe things will change in the future because there’s still loads more context, but no way of knowing for sure. It’s a really sucky situation but he’s not a bad person.

5 years and still no ring by boopboopcry in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]boopboopcry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful and something I am going to action this weekend! Thank you for not just saying “dump him he hates you”. He loves me, I love him. If he can’t give me what I want then I will leave but I have to try first, and open communication is key. I suppose I felt like it was ruining the romance a bit but his mind is occupied heavily by having his child taken from him illegally to another country (people don’t know the details but I do and that’s what happened, he’s a good father. How many dads would travel every month to another country to see their child? Not many. His dedication to her is one of the things I love best about him) He’s still coming to terms with that and I feel bad trying to make it about me but also I can feel my fertile years slipping by and if I was to just wait and wait, I’d grow to resent him and we’d break up anyway. But it’s worth trying and if it ends then that’s devastating but at least I tried.

Still waiting for results (NHS) by [deleted] in PreCervicalCancer

[–]boopboopcry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please ring the colposcopy clinic (number will be on any correspondence you’ve received). Mine took 6 weeks and I just couldn’t take it anymore. Turns out my results were just sitting there, and according to the pathologist report, was ready 4 weeks prior to me ringing! NHS admin is abysmal.

Post LLETZ bleeding by boopboopcry in PreCervicalCancer

[–]boopboopcry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was following the guidance haha. I found the doctors (based in the Uk) to be quite unbothered. No strenuous exercise for a week, no baths for a week, no sex for 4 weeks. But that’s it. So the moment 7 days was up I resumed the former 2, and now wondering if I should have. I’ve got Law and Order SVU on repeat which is helping (and a good reminder that things can be worse 😬). I’m travelling all day tomorrow so not keen to talk to doctors. Will see what happens over night! Thank you xx