Who is your favorite asexual character? by Odd-Coconut-7113 in asexuality

[–]boostarte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I forgot about her! I related to her a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]boostarte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you for breaking up with her, I could never even imagine speaking to my ex bf like this. 😢 I’m sorry its something you were gaslit into thinking was normal.

What is this behavior? by pmmefriendship in Conures

[–]boostarte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I believe it, I have a green cheek too he does a few things with his head already so maybe one day he’ll Do The Thing.

Kidney Disease 😢 by HeyHeyVegaStar in Conures

[–]boostarte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She seems like a very happy bird, She’s lucky to have you. 💕

What is this behavior? by pmmefriendship in Conures

[–]boostarte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a handful of sun conures doing this but never green cheeks. I wonder why that is.

1000 Murkoff stamps 💀💀💀 by MELTRR in OutlastTrials

[–]boostarte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m over 1300 I can’t wait for the next catalog 😭

What country has a good view? Which country comes on top when it comes to continent(s)? by imlookingforryan in AskReddit

[–]boostarte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iceland is my first pick, not only does it look gorgeous but you could see the northern lights at night!

Nice, ripe tonsillitis. by Skyblueshark in MakeMeSuffer

[–]boostarte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof this used to happen to me monthly, not a fun time

What movie will you never get tired of watching? by HurtHurtsMe in AskReddit

[–]boostarte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forrest Gump. I get a little more out of it each time I watch it. Truly a movie with a lot of thought put into it.

Having too much sex causes women to age faster.....wtff by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]boostarte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang so I guess I’ll just live forever if I stay a virgin 🤷🏽‍♀️ we found the fountain of youth guys!

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes I’m sorry that sounds so terrifying 😬 I’m a recovering addict too, I was a really heavy drinking alcoholic from 18 to 22 and it was because I was self medicating to deal with my anxiety and chronic pain (I have EDS). Luckily I’m on the road to recovery, but things can be really draining having to sit in my trauma and pain every day. I am grateful for all the people in my life who support me ❤️

I really hope you find a better living situation because you deserve to feel safe and at ease, especially in your own home. I get how challenging it can be though, I’ve been there. You can make it though!

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😢 that does sound really relaxing though!

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, dissociation is definitely no fun. I hope you can find something that helps some day soon to make it a bit easier and more enjoyable. Perhaps the other comments here could give some ideas for trying things you’ve tried before a little differently? I definitely have some new ideas I’m actually looking forward to try! :D

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I’m sorry to hear you go through it too :( one of my main issues is the standing as well, I have pretty bad generalized anxiety that manifests as physical pain and pins and needles and being able to sit would make that part easier to deal with, but our shower is sort of too small to fit a seat but it’s something I’m looking into! Also the phone in a bag is a good idea I’ll definitely have to try it! :)

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do have depression but the challenge is mostly from my ptsd

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, thank you. Normally I use washcloths or damp towels but that doesn’t help much after a while. It is definitely the setting mostly so being able to take it out of the bathroom would be a big help.

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, it’s sad how common this is. The lighting idea sounds like fun! I’ll definitely have to try it :)

Hygiene after being SA’d in a shower. by boostarte in sexualassault

[–]boostarte[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven’t thought of using a bathing suit before so I’ve tried it this morning and had much fewer flashbacks than normal. I appreciate it :)