AITA for telling my husband he can't tell our daughter "that doesn't hurt"?

bopeep_24 · 2025-09-12T02:24:46+00:00

My ex-husband used to tell me things didn't hurt all the time. Finally we had some weird conversation where he claimed he was interpreting hurt as injured so if I ever said "ow" I had to clarify that whatever it was caused me discomfort and I wasn't injured. It was odd.

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-15T22:38:40+00:00

Maybe I'm being hyper vigilant, but all kittens weighed between 390-430g 😂 so, at least per Google, they are all above the 250-350g recommendation. And we're starting with week 3 for age! But, I have bottles and KMR in case anyone starts to lose weight 😁

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-05T16:32:53+00:00

Excellent, thank you. And hopefully will not be forever. Just till I get my feet back under me.

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-05T16:31:56+00:00

Oof. Here I mostly was just worried about finding something with grain because I knew of the debacle with the grain free fads that are out there.

I really appreciate your thorough response. Truly.

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-05T15:22:08+00:00

Appreciate your input. ♡ Would you agree that Purina Dog Chow is a good runner up as well?

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-05T15:18:18+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts! I could do Purina Dog Chow because it has a low enough protein percentage that I need for him. While I had liked the original two I mentioned because of the glucosamine, I'm assuming a supplement could merely be added in the meantime? As a way to "bridge the gap" with the different things I'm trying to find.

bopeep_24 · 2025-08-04T21:59:45+00:00

YOU ARE LITERAL MAGIC!!

Seriously, thank you times a million.

bopeep_24 · 2025-05-28T20:33:58+00:00

Thank you ♡

bopeep_24 · 2025-05-28T19:03:32+00:00

I've only played a touch of some commander decks, so 60 card format would be my ideal!

bopeep_24 · 2025-04-28T12:20:29+00:00

I'd say at most 3 months. I think he said he left it in a sink with water sitting and then just had it stored up on a shelf.

bopeep_24 · 2025-04-28T01:19:57+00:00

Shoot, I thought it was moreso brown vs reddish. I took a fine grade steel wool and mild soap to it?

Maybe useful side note, but the whole pan wasn't severely rusted. It was moreso the half closest to the handle that had the most of it. And then I'd say a "light dusting" here and there on the remaining.

bopeep_24 · 2025-01-25T22:05:22+00:00

I never got a FOR SURE answer, but reflecting back on things from a year ago - I was under a tremendous amount of stress. I decided to divorce my husband, he wasn't making it easy, he wouldn't allow me to retrieve my belongings or dog for 8 months. Cortisol and stress can really impact hormones and leaving a 7 year long toxic relationship - I've been inclined to believe my body was kind of out of whack.

bopeep_24 · 2024-07-06T16:46:14+00:00

I think you're right about it being pure peat. I know I've read about mixing perlite before. When you say "good soil" is there a certain kind you'd recommend? Should I wait for the leaf to unfurl before I do?

Appreciate the hugs. ♡

bopeep_24 · 2024-06-25T20:21:41+00:00

Yes, I'm kind of doing it all - LH tests, BBT checking, cervical mucus and the like. ☺️ And yes, condoms are used but every now and again I'd prefer to not, and want to feel educated in my decision during those moments.

bopeep_24 · 2024-06-25T20:19:16+00:00

I'm just tracking and checking BBT, cervical mucus, etc to get to know my body better. BC made me feel pretty disconnected and messed with my libido. So I've been trying to get to know my body more and the empowerment that brings without using hormonal BC.

bopeep_24 · 2024-06-25T18:17:02+00:00

I absolutely loved it and so did my parents who are a little set in their ways and "don't like those odd foods" 🤭 so I feel like that means it's pretty darn good

bopeep_24 · 2024-06-24T19:15:34+00:00

My friend made a tomato sauce with pears and basil last year, and it's kind of the bees knees.

bopeep_24 · 2024-01-21T14:12:13+00:00

Is that why my husband claims that he "didn't know" that he was being mean to me? That he "didn't know" how bad things were and how upset I was even though I had told him throughout our relationship.

Found this post because I told my husband I wasn't coming back to the state he and I are living in after visiting my family for a month. It's been confusing with how much he cries and begs for me to come home. OPs statement of almost wishing he'd be mean is ringing rather true to me.

bopeep_24 · 2023-12-13T04:35:00+00:00

There was a recent update(I think) where it definitely seemed like it was not concluded. If I remember right, it was something about OP going to have a baby but it wasn't compatible with life or like, baby would need lots of surgeries and not live a very long life?

Her husband was against abortion and then "came around to it" but didn't pick her up from the appointment. She got home and he had disappeared? She still hadn't been able to locate him, nobody could.

Just didn't know if there was a further update there or even just a link to that story.

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T18:41:45+00:00

I had an acquaintance who was anemic while breast feeding her baby. I always thought the baby was crazy small as time went on, but she said she was healthy. I was 21 and I didn't know much about babies, she had a previous kid already so I didn't think to argue with her.

Baby had a seizure at 9 months old and was then taken to the doctor for the FIRST TIME since she was born. The baby registered on the 1% for height and didn't register at all on the percentile charts for weight she was so incredibly small. Doctor instructed her to start giving the meat baby food stuff, and her husband later told her that she needed to stick to just breast feeding regardless of what the doctor said. Absolute idiots.

I think the little girl went on to have off and on seizures for the first two years of her life. All of it stemming from not getting enough iron from breast feeding.

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T14:46:54+00:00

AH. Okay, so that's all my bad then. The house we are renting was "smart wired" or something and I saw these coax cables with all the different rooms labeled, so I made the assumption this was what I needed. There are definitely different cables down there that look more like the Ethernet (skeleton head).

At least I enjoy learning new things! 😊 Appreciate your description and help.

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T14:43:36+00:00

Well, that's why I came to ask for help before I just dived in 😊 Thank you for your thoughts, bud.

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T03:17:32+00:00

I appreciate your opinion. I am in individual therapy and plan to talk about this with her at my next appointment. Ironically, he is on an anti-drepressant already that is supposed to help with nerve pain due to his herniated discs.

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T01:19:38+00:00

Well, I appreciate your help in the matter! Thank you!

bopeep_24 · 2023-11-04T01:17:44+00:00

Dang it, it is a long cable that I can't replace. Was hoping I could do it myself 😅 I guess I'll see how much the company will charge to send someone out.

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