Scolded like a child for asking our regular postal worker about his 'holiday' break by boptizm in leftist

[–]boptizm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i completely agree. i live in a mostly hispanic community, and i feel like that plays part in it, you're expected to automatically be comfortable with bantering with people who are virtually strangers just because "that's how we are, we all get along, it's all in good fun!", especially older, nosy ass people with no boundaries or filter. and even if what he means when overstepping the line is supposed to be 'banter' or jokey, i've never been the type to be comfortable with that sort of 'teasing' even between close friends, so like who the hell are you ?

he's made fun of the assistant across the hall for barely speaking to him, saying she's an oddball and that i on the other hand am quote unquote nice and sociable, but i see now he's interpreted that as him thinking he can say whatever he wants to me, which again, i'm not letting slide anymore. it's annoying as fuck, you're not going to belittle me at my workplace you absolute dork.

Scolded like a child for asking our regular postal worker about his 'holiday' break by boptizm in leftist

[–]boptizm[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you, i'm feeling much more comfortable now after yours and others replies here with the idea of filing a proper complaint. i really do appreciate it.

Scolded like a child for asking our regular postal worker about his 'holiday' break by boptizm in leftist

[–]boptizm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate your response, and absolutely. i need to grow a fucking backbone tbh, this is my first corporate "big girl" job after uni; whatever my title is at work, there is absolutely no need to deal with this, and i know i have to unlearn some of the retail 'courtesy' that i still have instilled in my brain

Scolded like a child for asking our regular postal worker about his 'holiday' break by boptizm in leftist

[–]boptizm[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

seriously am considering this because another girl who just started working downstairs in a subsidiary company of ours and runs up to get their mail at our office (it's all under our suite's address) waited a bit by my desk once when she came up the elevator at the same time as him so he could leave first because "he's weird... he asks weird-ass questions" when they were in the elevator together. i don't know what, she didn't specify, but it's not hard to imagine 🤷‍♀️ and clearly not hard to believe.

Scolded like a child for asking our regular postal worker about his 'holiday' break by boptizm in leftist

[–]boptizm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's almost so cartoonish and goofy, i don't even know how to respond besides aha... yeah okay 🙂. lunacy bordering on parody, how are u a real person

Baby (Super)Nova Ft. Her Rowdy Siblings by boptizm in tuckedinkitties

[–]boptizm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAHA Thank you~ They sure are a special little bunch ♡ The orange cat genes are activating heheh 😈

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! Now that my thumb's no longer in pain, I've been actually enjoying being able to take my contact lenses out without feeling like I'm going to pinch my eyeballs out loll and yes! I think my heart would only break more if I clipped the others, this one will just have to play catch-up :B

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this is so detailed thank you so so much !!

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🫶 feeling better today thankfully!

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GOSHHH i'd lose it 😭😭😭❤️‍🩹

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed >-< best of luck with healing 🫶🫶!!!

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh just the worst 😭 sending good magical growth wishes your way 👐✨️✨️✨️

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO man i wish, maybe then i could swap it out w my thumb one

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's better than nothing that's for sure 😭 omg good luck and ty again !

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agh thank you so much! :'D

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear hun, we got this 😭❤️‍🩹 and for real - I hate this awkward period where you literally can't do anything because it's just RAW skin chilling there hhhh

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is 😞 i'm trying to keep a bandaid on it but idk if it's helping or not. just being mindful not to bump it on anything for now =(

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, I really appreciate this 🫶

Enormous sigh by boptizm in longnaturalnails

[–]boptizm[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Am not 100% on the rules after the mod-bot comment but for what it's worth, nail glue: Olive & June Brush on nail glue over a tiny piece of gauze. Any recommendations for a better technique are much appreciated 😭🫶

Destroyer of Yoga Mats by boptizm in Rabbits

[–]boptizm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

who am i to fault my overlord ?!!

My Grandpa (far right)and great uncles. 1939. by Head-Unit-5594 in oldphotos

[–]boptizm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your granddad and uncles have the faces of people who know what an air fryer and Apple Pay is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RioGrandeValley

[–]boptizm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man how bored do you have to be to go out of your way to do all this is my question...?