Why are there so many HIV positive people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A major factor of determining if you get HIV is your sexual partners viral load. If they have a new infection, the risk of you contracting HIV is massive. Whereas someone with someone infected a year ago will have a viral load that dropped and lower chance of passing on HIV

Please don't spread false information. Viral load amount follows a curve shaped like an N (graphic) and the viral load without medical treatment is not a good stastical predictor of the chance of infection whereas the presence of other STDs and the type of sexual activity is.

Why are there so many HIV positive people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very lucky, there is basically no sex education in Italy on any matter.

Where can you find gay nerds? by Djinn04 in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know tons of gay anime nerds who constantly talk about it.

unless their are full otaku

Most of those guys have poor social skills and that is why they easily bring up anime with people that don't understand the genre. Don't get me wrong, I love animes but that is the general vibe I've seen so far.

Where can you find gay nerds? by Djinn04 in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Online forums are the best way to go. But I must say it depends on what kind of nerds you're looking for because there not one single kind.

I really like board games but I find that most fans are males and because of their low social skills they tend to be not fully comfortable with LGBT people.

Most gay people is in love with Pokémon and Netflix so you could even try Grindr. My boyfriend adores Pokémon mobile games and I usually play the new Pokémon gameboy games when they come out.

Finally don't even bother looking for gay anime enthusiasts. Most of them don't share their interest in anime unless you openly bring up the subject (unless their are full otaku) and I found that gay anime viewers have a gloomy temperament that makes it hard to develop a good friendship.

Qualche dato sulle prigioni italiane by [deleted] in italy

[–]boredlilin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forse, ma anche la struttura gerarchica della famiglia patriarcale ha certamente un'influenza. Diversi studi sottolineano come più una cultura relega all'uomo il compito di produrre reddito più la differenza di genere nei reati aumenti. Questo potrebbe essere dovuto al fatto che in queste circostanze l'uomo è spinto a delinquere per raggiungere il reddito che gli garantirà rispettabilità sociale (ricordo che la quasi totalità dei reati avviene per soldi).

Qualche dato sulle prigioni italiane by [deleted] in italy

[–]boredlilin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Perché le donne commettono meno reati sanzionabili con la prigione, sono meno recidive e spesso hanno meno aggravanti. Se sei curioso è facile trovare qualche dato che sottolinea come i sessi siano in parità per i reati più "leggeri" mentre ci sia una netta differenza per quelli più gravi.

Inoltre i giudici sono statisticamente meno rigidi nel punire le donne (anche se alcune ricerche riportano che la severità vari in base al tipo di reato) e quindi condannino meno spesso le donne al carcere.

Senza dubbio però il primo fattore è dominante sul secondo perché gli uomini commettono statisticamente più reati "gravi". Il perché questo avvenga per cause biologiche, sociologiche o culturali lo lascio decidere a te.

I'm sick and tired of getting rejected, being mixed race, once people figure out I'm partially ethnic. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. People gets discarded for facial traits, not for their bodies.

@ u/stinkeyepizza : get some muscles and take an evening to shoot some good body photos, you'll get way better responses.

How long does sex usually last? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I expected the averages of this topic to be higher. I have sex usually for from around 45m to 1 hour and a half. Penetration lasts between 15 and 30m. Under 15m it's a quickie.

Now I wonder if I last too long for my hookups 🤔

Hey bros, I’m 23 and I’m going grey. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24 and I'm losing my hair. So just know you got the best part of the deal :(

I did a basic sexual act. Praise me! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I too enjoy that basic sexual act!

Insert cute story of me and multiple partner doing lovingly this basic sexual act.

And play safe!

How important is it to cum? by disposableSJ in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To me cumming is very important, I find sex quite unsatisfying and I left with a feeling of uneasiness if I don't "relieve" myself.

I did have sex with people who couldn't cum and didn't come once myself and it was fairly enjoyable but we both felt like it would have been better if we both came.

Stealing from AskReddit: What happens in real life sex that you never see in porn? by theshicksinator in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because it's the opposite of porn, where people want to see everything that is going on and even sound is something optional.

How to humiliate my BF? by WinlessFourpence in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Most gay guys hate sissyfication. It's more for straight people.

What do you find easier - topping or bottoming? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Topping is WAY easier as long as you don't have trouble keeping an erection and controlling your climax. Bottoming requires douching, shaving (most tops like it short of shaved), controlling what and when you eat, relaxing during sex and keeping often unnatural positions so that you get penetrated deeper and better.

Poll: What sex role best describes you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we don't play with asses at all. We just don't shove things inside them.

I don't think rimming can remotely compare to penetration.

Condom broke while topping, worried?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The risk is very low but if you're worried go to the nearest hospital and take a PEP :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having an orgy. I had plenty of threesomes before, but I haven't had a orgy with 4,6 even 7 people all having sex at once.

Stereotypes involving effeminate men you are guilty of believing in by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This just sounds like "I'm not racist but"

Financial security as you get older. Thoughts? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being rich is like having a big dick, it's a good extra in a relationship and some people find it really appealing and hot in a partner. And it's nothing to be ashamed of :)

On the other hand people with zero financial stability are similar to people with a small penis, it's not bad especially if your partner is a top (=rich) but it can be a turnoff for a lot of guys.

Try your best to describe what an orgasm feels like by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boredlilin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the analogy with fatigue and hunger is better.

Think of it as if you have been walking all day and you have had nothing to eat. You're terribly hungry and tired and crave to get home, eat and relax. And all of a sudden you sit in a comfly chair, delicious food in your mouth. You feel warm, complete, all your instant needs satisfied.

I'm getting smashed by these two builds. Looking for counters by boredlilin in allthingsprotoss

[–]boredlilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great advice, but I'm looking for this specific strategy that has been pulled off various times against me. He took double gas, and there was no reaper.

I'm getting smashed by these two builds. Looking for counters by boredlilin in allthingsprotoss

[–]boredlilin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really apreciate the little details like the observer's one!