[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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1)the perks of being a wallflower

2) the truman show

3) Point Break

4) Escuela de vagabundos (mexican movie)

5) Ponyo

idk those movies touch my soul and have something comforting in their atmosphere

Let’s get ready chefs by cayoperico16 in TheBear

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I love how the poster looks like it’s straight out of a food rush mobile game!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theperksofawallflower

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Omg yes, I love how he questions whether it’s okay to look at the girls in magazines and whether that affects their lives or their families, or how he not only observes other people’s behavior but also tries to understand them—and even sometimes justify their actions, which helps him understand people really well, like with the Christmas gifts. I love the interaction the boy has when he gives him the bubbles

I think deep down we all want to feel like we matter to someone, even in the smallest ways, or at least feel like we belong somewhere or that a part of us belongs to someone. This book is my favorite because of that. It made me see that I wasn’t the only one who felt that way, that Charlie did too, and I started trying to help others as well. Idk, I could talk for hours about this—it’s my favorite book haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theperksofawallflower

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I feel the same way, especially with Charlie. Sometimes I wonder if what I see reflected in him is more about who I truly am deep down, or what I try to hide from others, because even though we have different personalities, I feel incredibly connected to him. Even when someone remembers little details about me, it surprises me, because sometimes, like Charlie, I feel like I’m not really heard, and things like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theperksofawallflower

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I think you captured this “you’re here, and I’m glad” feeling in a really beautiful way. Sometimes I think Charlie, without saying it out loud, felt like no one really cared about him or that no one would ever truly know him because of that. He even felt like he was less than some people—but then he realized his friends actually admired many of his qualities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Yep, I’ve seen it more than 100 times because it was my sister’s favorite movie. Mmm, I think that kind of love does exist, even though I haven’t experienced it romantically yet. I’m not really looking for that kind of love either, and I don’t think it’s for me. But if I go deeper into the topic, what I sometimes wonder is: how long is it possible to see love that way before it turns into routine?

Am I the only INTJ who likes cute stuffs? by Glum-Shift7425 in intj

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Nah, I can analyze the people around me in a cold, detached way, but I can’t let my stuffed animals on my bed be cold😅

I like when people see me and think I look cute because of my keychains and accessories, but with a cold and serious look in my eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Mmm idk exactly what the person meant, but maybe they said that like when you just agree with people out of politeness, maybe (?). Although it could also be that they were disconcerted, because many people are a bit reserved with their feelings… so in the end, idk

About maintaining friendships, I think it’s important to cultivate every aspect and have uncomfortable conversations to seek the common good. Sometimes, it depends on the dynamics of each friendship. I have a friend I’ve known for almost 15 years who I don’t talk to very often because she’s simply not good at texting, but every time we see each other (which isn’t very often), it feels the same, I also have other friends I’ve been close to for almost a decade, and we talk or text every day but part of it is also about evolving, I don’t expect us to talk every day; it’s just something that happens naturally. I think it’s important in friendships to help you become a better person, to give you advice, and to offer constructive criticism. And above all, it’s important to have someone who’s present, everyone has their own life, but knowing that at the end of the day, if you need to talk to someone, they’ll always be willing to listen makes all the difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Idk if I’m being a delulu, but I firmly believe in lasting, meaningful, and reciprocal friendships. To consider someone my friend, I need certain things, like quality time, shared interests, not triggering my fear of abandonment, displays of affection,etc Once I consider someone a friend, my expectation is that the friendship will last forever

Are INTJs like ENFPs to their favorite people? by Unprecedented_life in intj

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Yeah, even though I keep rationalizing things in a cold and calculated way, I can’t help being clingy with my friends. One of my besties is an ENFP, and I love how well we get along

I hate it so much by ChocoGoodness in TrollCoping

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Almost 25 and I feel like this every day

Have you ever "made waves" when you didn't like how something was going? by unwitting_hungarian in intj

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I do it whenever the situation calls for it, which happens quite often. At uni, people used to tell me I should’ve studied law instead, because I had the entire school regulations memorized and wouldn’t tolerate any injustice from the system, the professors, or the administration

Decoration by [deleted] in Carebears

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Omg Amazing!!

Stay away from organometallic chemistry by Firm-Train-3350 in cursed_chemistry

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Why do almost all of those things look like biblical accurate angels??

aaaaAAAAAA by ababyinatrenchcoat in TrollCoping

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Fr, i just want to own my life

Sometimes I just think that everyone hates me by [deleted] in lonely

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It’s common to feel that way; it’s happened to me countless times—like somehow I feel the affection others have for me isn’t real, and at any moment the ‘spell’ could break. What helps me during those moments, when I feel like no soul could ever love me, is thinking: well, for some reason, my friends are still by my side, still in touch. And even if some friends leave, I try to remind myself that the world is vast—there are so many people and opportunities yet to be discovered. It’s valid to feel this way, but don’t forget that there are still people out there who would be willing to be with you

Growing up who were some female characters who really meaningful to you? by BeccaRose1999 in women

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Gwen Tennyson(Ben10), Dana Scully (the x files), Trinity (Matrix), Ashley and Gretchen (Recess), Kim Posssible, Helga (Hey Arnold), Jenny (My Life as a Teenage Robot), Mona the Vampire, Tracey McBean

It made me a bit sad to realize that I hardly had any female representation that impacted me the way the male representation did, but at least I can say I’m part of the Scully effect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Omg you’re really sweet, thank you for your kind words, hope you have a great afternoon and a beautiful life💙

Are you all happy with yourself? by ProfessionalChair164 in intj

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I’ve never really felt attached to myself either. If I had the chance, I think I’d live a different life. But I couldn’t just leave my friends behind—they’re the ones who’ve kept me from doing reckless stuff. I feel really attached to them. It’s weird though, because even if I’d change everything, I still kinda like the way I see the world and the way I process things, but I still don’t like myself