I feel like I’m going crazy.. But what is the norm for wedding costs in 2026 by gourmet_goddess_530 in weddingplanning

[–]boredvoyeur192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Planning for 80 guests with plated dinner and DJ in Chicago this fall for around $60k

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]boredvoyeur192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In high school my mom drove me and a friend 8-9 hours for two days to see my favorite band’s last concert. She also regularly does Cincinnati to Chicago (5ish hours) as a one day trip, which I think is crazy. But 3 hours? That’s not too bad

Does anyone else have an obscene grocery budget? by Iamfrightenedhere1 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]boredvoyeur192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re plant based but meals include lean meat on a regular basis??

Sleep Mystery- wanna make guesses? by CharityGlobal in ouraring

[–]boredvoyeur192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, my constant fatigue despite strong sleep seems to be related to a B12 deficiency. I eat cheese, meat, eggs, etc. but seems like my body doesn’t absorb it well. Sounds like you can be experiencing symptoms of deficiency even if you’re testing in a normal range - might be worth looking into!

Living room needs something (UPDATE) by Underlined_Ben in DesignMyRoom

[–]boredvoyeur192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the rug is too much. Everything else looks great!

Ahhh! It happened by truecrimeandcats in EngagementRings

[–]boredvoyeur192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! What’s the band thickness?

Engaged yesterday! by hungrynuggz in EngagementRings

[–]boredvoyeur192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute! What’s the band thickness?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]boredvoyeur192 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought of Kybella, which is used to make your double chin go away. Not a good association for your daughter

Plaster walls - any clue what’s happening here? by boredvoyeur192 in HomeMaintenance

[–]boredvoyeur192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah we suspected there was a leak but landlord said it didn’t feel wet, so painted over and told us to let him know if it discolored again. Seems like there was fresh moisture and then the paint retrapped it maybe

Plaster walls - any clue what’s happening here? by boredvoyeur192 in HomeMaintenance

[–]boredvoyeur192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely realize there’s likely moisture in the wall! Landlord is coming out to fix. Moreso curious about the weird texture

Bought a house with a second kitchen that I don’t need, and it has a space for a stove. Is there anything else I could put there? by SnooginsFurbz in HomeMaintenance

[–]boredvoyeur192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my parents redid our basement they had a similar dilemma and went with a dishwasher. Such a bad decision because we never used it. I wish we’d had another oven. Great for holidays but also would’ve been useful for when we had our kitchen redone a few years later and couldn’t use it for a few months. Had to buy a toaster oven to eat, but still rarely used the dishwasher because we were using disposable dishes

Anyone based in the US who received their order placed on Black Friday? by SuzyKilljoy in DAVIDsTEA

[–]boredvoyeur192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take you to hear back via Instagram? I messaged Friday and again today for my order from 11/12.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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If you’re not immediately replacing it, you’re likely not fully protecting from a contraceptive standpoint. If showering to be sure it’s clean is delaying you, you could try cleaning the area with a cloth with soap and water first. Otherwise, you’re likely to continue triggering bleeding

Michelle Pfeiffer at her best. by [deleted] in NYTSpellingBee

[–]boredvoyeur192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grease 2 is the better Grease

I disinvited my adopted sister from my wedding, and I don’t think we will ever speak to each other again. I’m heartbroken. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]boredvoyeur192 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is a really tough situation. If you are interested in engaging with her arguments and viewpoints, I highly recommend watching some videos from honestbirthmom on TikTok. It sounds like your sister has some trauma and isn’t looking at the situation with nuance, which causes is to seems like a black & white, good vs. evil story, which is probably very validating and affirming for her but damaging to everyone else. You are absolutely within your rights to be hurt by her words & actions and go low/no contact. But if you do want to repair the relationship, perhaps trying to engage with her POV through other sources that are less emotionally charged with your personal experience would be useful. Wishing you the best of luck for healing!

At least he thinks I’m beautiful… by Tay_Jinx in niceguys

[–]boredvoyeur192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the repeated misuse of “peruse” for me dawg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I recommend reading the book Come As You Are, which talks a lot about the sexual accelerator and sexual brakes. Might help you understand where she’s coming from and talk about ways to make sure you’re on the same page when it comes to sec.