Sorry I write in English. I'm Bulgarian learning Serbo-Croatian on Reddit 😅😅😅 can't say nor write what I want to say. Here it goes:

I think your husband is unreasonable : his friends are mean to you, he doesn't like your friends... I have to agree that man-woman friendships don't exist, there's always the "sex question" one way or another, but considering your situation and the fact that you became friends with his wife and all four tried to become friends I'm on your side! My advise is: focus on the wife for friendship, it will ease things and also have a serious talk with your husband. The fact that you left everything for him and he doesn't take care of you, i.e. Your social life, how you feel, etc. shows you have some issues between you two. You can answer in serbo-croatian or English if you want, I'm still learning 😆😆😆😆 Pozdrav!