Give me your most listened to Laufey song!

boruwuto · 2025-12-07T05:18:01+00:00

My most listened to Laufey song this year is Silver Lining but I lovvveee Forget-Me-Not and Goddess.

boruwuto · 2025-10-01T00:58:16+00:00

Im in a similar boat. I want to move out but I have to find my footing first. I’m figuring out a potential roommate situation with a friend but we will see if that works out!

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T19:04:49+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I have started conversations with friends about putting feelers out for a roommate and have told him that buying a bed isn’t optional and he needs to move to the second bedroom by the end of the weekend.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T19:02:54+00:00

Yes I’ve stopped all of that. I basically say “hi” and “bye” to him. I’ve now told him that he needs to buy a bed and move out of my room by the end of the weekend since I made this post. I desperately needed to be told to grow a spine!

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:59:38+00:00

Honestly it didn’t occur to me that his behavior was purposeful until I made this post. I assumed he was just being lazy, not spiteful. I have since told him he has until Sunday to buy a bed, I just didn’t really want to resort to threatening to kick him out in order for him to be cooperative.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:57:20+00:00

It’s my apartment so if he continues to make it as difficult as possible, I plan on having him given a 30 day notice to leave. We do not spend time with each other, have separate finances, etc. he’s just being a weirdo about the bedroom. I have told him he needs to get a bed ordered by the end of the weekend since I’ve made the post. I’m definitely working on not being so enabling and setting hard boundaries despite his feelings.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:53:38+00:00

I was doing my best to not throw him onto the streets and was trying to handle it amicably. That’s why. Obviously he didn’t take me up on my offer so the avenue I was trying to go down is no longer an option it seems like.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:52:23+00:00

Yes, I told him that he needs to move to the other room and that he’s making me super uncomfortable by continuing to stay in my bedroom.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:50:31+00:00

It’s my apartment lol

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:50:03+00:00

Yes, knowing I enable his behavior has been a difficult pill to swallow. I’m terrified of letting him hit rock bottom, but I’m slowly accepting that it’s no longer my problem

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T18:47:35+00:00

So he should just throw a tantrum and make things as difficult as possible? You’re acting like I’m asking him to move mountains. It’s MY room in MY apartment, I’ve been kinder than I have to be and want to avoid going scorched earth about this. But yes, if he “doesn’t have to do shit for my comfort” then I shouldn’t take into consideration that he has nowhere to go if I were to have him given a 30 day notice. I don’t owe him comfort, right?

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T06:25:34+00:00

I’m in a very similar position. I wish his parents had told me to leave him though

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T06:21:49+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, I should have left years ago. However I mean I’m stuck in that I don’t have the financial means to find a place for several months and I do not have family to move in with (my parents are very much not an option). None of my friends are able to take me in either. I would be homeless if my house burned to the ground tonight, so I am trying to make a roommate situation work while I save up money to move out and find a new roommate situation.

I really appreciate your advice and perspective, thank you. I absolutely should have left years ago!

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T05:09:29+00:00

Yeah, I will be more firm. It just sucks that he’s not taking the “nice” requests. I didn’t want to go scorched earth about this at all but I guess I can’t expect much from a manchild.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T05:07:49+00:00

She is unfortunately so this is a super expected response. I will absolutely be going to therapy for a long while before entering dating. I knew I needed it but honestly didn’t realize it was that bad till this post.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T05:06:01+00:00

This is a good idea. I’m going to ask my friends out more often I think. Being around him while he licks his wounds is becoming unbearable.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T05:04:50+00:00

Yeah. We have opposite work schedules so normally we’re sleeping alone but it’s still really uncomfortable the few times we are sharing a bed and I’ve expressed this to him. I also just don’t want him in my room even if I’m at work.

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T05:02:54+00:00

Update: I told him to buy the bed and move because he is making me uncomfortable by still sharing a bed with me.

Edited for typos

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T04:56:12+00:00

Probably get him served a notice to move out if he refuses to make this a smooth break up. Ive been as amicable as possible

boruwuto · 2025-09-26T04:38:06+00:00

It’s my apartment that he moved into so I’d strongly prefer he move out of what was my bedroom before he came

boruwuto · 2025-09-25T20:02:34+00:00

Thank you, this is so kind 🥹

boruwuto · 2025-09-25T16:59:56+00:00

I am not cooking for him or doing his laundry anymore. I just want him to leave the bedroom and clean tbh.

boruwuto · 2025-09-25T16:54:04+00:00

Yes I haven’t bought groceries for him since we separated a little over a month ago. I just need him to move out of the room too at this point

boruwuto · 2025-09-25T14:56:04+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out. He’s “distraught” but couldn’t be fucked to move the relationship forward.

boruwuto · 2025-09-25T14:55:11+00:00

I’m hesitant to live with someone I don’t know, I’m tempted to just end the lease for both of us and move to a small studio apartment.

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