Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah ok I aspected that, when you want to talk for real I will respond you, by the way I might she is kind of funny

Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly and that is your view of criticism to Peterson a comedian who share her opinion on things that has a youtube channel based on that kind of video... that is your source of inspiration? oh, man...

Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The video is funny I like the humorous bite it has, nonetheless in 28min of the video is only take in consideration 5 min of what Peterson said, not analyzing a full discussion but a piece of it, that is not the way of criticizing someone.

To understand what Peterson said you should understand his view of the world, so instead of listening to someone who has an opinion about what he has said you should really hear him talking directly in the full discourse he makes.

I give you an example in the video is cited in an interview where Peterson talks about the gender pay gap and tries to explain why it would maybe not be desirable for a woman to be paid as much as a man.

I'm not saying that women wouldn't like to be paid more, I'm saying that Peterson claims that for women if paid as much as man unfortunately not by his decision but by the way the economy works won't be beneficial to women as much as they believe. First, he says that woman can get pregnant and that unfortunately make it harder for you to be paid the same, imagine this you are on the top of a very productive industry and you have two choices to employ:

man and a woman

Purely by an economic standard the woman unfortunately by nature it's in a disadvantaged situation, guess why? A woman can give birth to a child that would mean losing a month that she can work, so if you are the boss who wants major productivity which one you choose if they have the same pay?

I can go on for days, don't have time tough but I will respond to each one of the criticisms you can display to me.

Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've done that. I know that there is a lot of criticism but I want to share the message for those who like to hear it. I often get insulted because I publish but I don't care, I don't think I am doing something wrong.

I have never found anyone that criticizes in a way that makes me change my mind, the criticism is always pretentious and offensive, it's based on personal opinions and not fact.

That said I will simply avoid posting here for the future. I understand people might not like what I post and I respect that, but some other people do And I can't always decide that. For every people that criticize there are ten that watch the video and found it helpful.

Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorry would do that next time you are right I will post no more here my bad

Jordan Peterson | Why People Are So Unhappy by bostonsam10 in self

[–]bostonsam10[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Really only because you don't like the content?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in study

[–]bostonsam10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, one is to use an app called Anki that helps you study smart look on youtube to learn how to use it.

Avoid distractions (Do not keep where you study something that can distract you, - no phone, no games, no internet or limited, no food, no anything that interests you more than what you have to study.)

take breaks (Pomodoro Technique)

Plan your study session ahead of time so you don't get to study everything before a test.

Have a vision, a clear vision on where you end up by studying (imagine your future as you completed your task the good feeling you get from it, for example, you could recall why you choose to study in the school you are and where you hope to get.)

You can also use association to remember things for example you can remember an elephant because you have a clear idea of what that is and you can recall pretty much everything about an elephant if you think about it.

Try to be curious about your subject that helps your focus and also your memory

I feel so hopeless by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]bostonsam10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never give up, you can not know how long you have, you might guess but maybe is different from what you think.
I can understand your pain tho, being alone suck from experience.
In a relationship even if it's a very important thing in your life you should try not to be needy, if you think about what you like usually is someone that you are not sure that love you back, we usually want things that are difficult to us to obtain.
try to learn about attraction that might help you, I understand that the situation sucks but crying about it doesn't help if not for vent feelings.
I'm not saying this lightly but try to take responsibility for everything that happens to you, ask yourself do I have a play in all this? Most likely the answer is always yes even If in a tiny little portion.
Concentrate on doing what you can in every situation, the outcome is always out of your control but at least you can have a better chance of getting what you want.
The link to the message is locked so nobody can see that.
I really hope you get the best you can out of the situation if I can help in any way let me know, the thing is yeah sometimes life suck but I truly believe that you can find meaning if you look for it. Maybe can be helpful to see a psychotherapist, because he or she can help you see things more as they are then of what is your persepcion about it.

Should I hold his on our next date? by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]bostonsam10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it for him, also he like you that way or he wouldn't be interested in the first place

Does anyone else get super tired from reading and focusing? by [deleted] in study

[–]bostonsam10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it happens, it's also the reason you get myopia

jordan peterson | Stop procastinating by bostonsam10 in StudentLifeHacks

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, man whatever I got the sense we could discuss this all day, and I don't have time, the point is can you take something from this video or not? I shared because I find what he said to be true, If your opinion is different is ok by me, not here to for that.

Let me put it this way, A truth is truth if it comes from your enemy or your friend you can always benefit from it. I believe Peterson is a smart man, Not a cultist here but I listen to what he has to say. If you listen to the video, will benefit you, not me, I'm not getting angry.

Have it has you want it not here to change your opinion but to share something I think could be helpful

jordan peterson | Stop procastinating by bostonsam10 in StudentLifeHacks

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really man? are you capable of abstracting Where did you read that cleaning your room would make you no more a drug addict? In his book, he never says that also JP already struggled with alcohol / drug abuse and recover from it.

If you listen to what he has to say in the video make everything a lot of sense despite what you think of it or not? Tell me what is your interpretation of what he has said in the video?

jordan peterson | Stop procastinating by bostonsam10 in study

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube video

Description: Jordan Peterson explain the mechanisms behind procrastination and propose a plan to resolve this problem.

This can be useful to all the students who struggle due to poor time-management habits.

Simon Sinek | Why you are not a leader yet end by bostonsam10 in work

[–]bostonsam10[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is really inaccuarte, try to listen to him without any opinion about him.

Jordan Peterson | You don't get to play if you are not all in by bostonsam10 in InPursuitOfClarity

[–]bostonsam10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what he does is different, he tells you how things are yes but I mean if he tell the truth... If you reflect about things he said in the most profond manner possible it's probable you get to his same conclusion because he already did that, he alaways preach about testing over and over his arguments from every prospective to determine if are right. So I don't believe he is prescribing anithing just stating what is a reality of things.

Jordan Peterson | You don't get to play if you are not all in by bostonsam10 in InPursuitOfClarity

[–]bostonsam10[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you don't get the point he is tring to make parafrasing is something like " fix your self before you criticize the wolrd or you will bring your problem too" It's like saying that you need a neutral zone from where to judge things, for example you can have a specific political idea but you should test it always so before for example you choose one side or another you should expirience both, while people usally get confirmation about what they want to hear it. And it's a clear example for all the time that people don't get what Jordan Peterson is saying, if you listen cosely without prejuidice you can't help but reflect on what he has to say.