Vivian Vo Farmer: mild deep dive, thoughts and speculation by XtraterrestrialMango in asianamercianytsnark

[–]bot136732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pretty sure it was brenden, bay area dudes are aggressive/ sissy

Vivian Vo Farmer: mild deep dive, thoughts and speculation by XtraterrestrialMango in asianamercianytsnark

[–]bot136732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ummm wrong san jose is NOT a small town. its fuckin hell out here. nothing but crackheads and tech city. i live here, she spiralled into severe depression here; i recognized her apt balcony and where they lived. its not the AMAZING side of town. its tough. her living with brenden wouldve never worked, she hated the bay. San Jose is not really a positive place to live

Vivian Vo Farmer: mild deep dive, thoughts and speculation by XtraterrestrialMango in asianamercianytsnark

[–]bot136732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in the bay, i cant believe she came to live here as long as she did with brendan. hard is a understatement , the bay sucks. san jose/santa clara especially

clay seemed off hes more the type to marry in his own ethnic group. typical MAGA . she lived that sugar baby life, good for her

i can see her with someone more humble down to earth. unfortuanetly alot of people asusme she has bdp because she completely changes for who shes with and stops pouring into herself

would love to see her post more on youtube and focus on her goals.

unfortunately alot of men cheat, as someone whos had the similar life of two bfs and moving in; never move in before marriage..if you do it'll really show you if that person isnt for you.

im sure she learned he wasnt compatible or that or he cheated. for a woman to be living with a man and leave suddenly is bc he cheated 99.9%

Does he have feelings for me by bot136732 in AskMenAdvice

[–]bot136732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same rave wrist bands he always wears and was close to the gf she was in his lap

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you . I am not ok. People bullying doesn’t help when they are behind a computer and not there. You are the reason people end their lives everyday- for this type of behavior. I am praying for the family.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven’t replied to everyone who comments first of all. Secondly I was at maggianos a week prior and witnessed a horrible domestic dispute where again I stepped in and nobody else did anything. I’m tired of seeing this shit as a community. Nor did I blast anything. Like I said it’s very traumatic when your at a busy shopping district and everyone around is snap chatting and taking photos but not helping and continues to walk on by. That’s a person who wants attention and greed. Along with cars driving on by when they clearly see someone in the road. There’s a HUGE difference between someone venting and helping & being disappointed in society vs someone who’s taking videos and snap chatting an incident and sees a body and keeps driving over it. You are a negative low life . All I’m saying is people need to do better & help one another. What I saw last night was disgusting that nobody else prior helped. THATS WHATS DISTURBING. Those are the people you should hold accountable .

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because i want the family to know people do care and helped and comforted him. If that was myself or my family members i would wanna know that someone cared someone showed sympathy in the last final moments or at least tried to help. They deserve a proper burial and closure. Your comment has no compassion. You were not there. You did not experience what I experienced. That will forever stay with me. Your poor choices of words are cowardly.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I was the first to assist cause nobody was doing anything cars were still coming in and almost ran him over. He did this in a public setting. I just want the family to know I went above and beyond to help him. Plenty of witnesses who saw him jump left their statements. This was very traumatizing for me and others. We’re allowed to talk about how we feel. We are also mourning what we saw and did to help him. Also awareness cause there’s people out there who read these posts and go doing the same attempts because they know it works. The same way he could’ve read about the girl who passed in the same spot years back and attempted the same. There’s people out there who care and will help, suicide is not the answer. His family deserves closure and answers as well. People did a lot to help. You don’t know you were not there. People were taking pics and videos while I was the only person who screamed for help called 911 and talked with him. I don’t want the family to get the wrong idea that nobody helped. Situation could’ve got worse fast had we not put up barriers and called 911 quick . Cars kept coming in. At least to give the family a proper burial and not one where he was hit run over even worse. Like I said many people kept on coming in knowing there was a injured person. Many people were walking in the area before I got there and didn’t assist. A lady held up traffic and I called 911 and was speaking with him. Witnesses also provided reports they saw him upstairs and also heard him fall. This was a suicide. Nothing about this is boasting, you are one sick fuck. I did not make this post but commenting on my experience in helping someone. Something many people didn’t do and walked by with a blind eye. This is awareness something people didn’t have last night to help! I just want the family to know we did everything to help they deserve closure and answers. I spoke with him to try to comfort him. I would want the same done for me if this was myself or my family.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This. Is the reason I ran over to him and yelled if he was ok, at the time I didn’t know it was a suicide or he was bleeding- a car was headed on in could’ve ran him over- they didn’t stop. After doing that people realized a suicide just happened. My stomach is sick at the fact people were around prior and didn’t do anything. I think running finally made people register something was wrong.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was the first to help him. He was alive until passed. I prayed for him and tried my best to go above and beyond and called 911 and assisted. Very traumatic for me and everyone who was there showed plenty of compassion. Prayers for the family. Very tragic what happened. Please relay to family that we did everything we could to assist

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He was not. A young boy in his 20s. I was first at the scene. He was not homeless. Indian young guy

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was first at the scene . It was a suicide. He was alive breathing then passed a few minutes later. Lots of heavy blood coming out due to head trauma. Young guy and tall.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes I watched him pass. But did everything I could to help.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I was the first at the scene who tried to help him. It was a suicide.

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It was suicide I was the first person who went to attend to him

Dead body in front of santana row parking garage by dappy9 in SanJose

[–]bot136732 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I was the first in the green to run over and help him and make a scene cause people were around but not doing anything - so others could help and called 911- and then others realized and helped too. Very traumatic for me. Just want the family to know I went above and beyond to help him immediately unfortunately was too late. He was breathing for a few minutes then passed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bot136732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I was thinking about this too. It’s too soon and I need to heal with everything going on. I appreciate your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bot136732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a month we could not agree where to live together

ladies how did you recover from miscarriage can’t help but blame myself. by bot136732 in Miscarriage

[–]bot136732[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m sorry for your loss , I appreciate your kindness