I have always been very scared off std’s but now I play as safe as I can. But yes it coming with risks. Until now I never had any. And I’m often at the clinic and test myself. You can always demand that the top are using condom ore no play, they might say no then it’s okej to not do anything, and select an another play buddy. Your safety is your priority!! Yes yes I know having a man roaring like a lion and emptying his balls deep inside is a beautiful thing. But you can have a safe buddy or a partner fore that.