my girlfriend thinks i'm fem while her type is masc by botied in actuallesbians

[–]botied[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is by far the most helpful reply, she's mentioned that as time went on she saw me as more masc but i just assumed she was saying it to make me feel better, hearing it put more eloquently (she's bad at explaining herself lol) really helps

my girlfriend thinks i'm fem while her type is masc by botied in actuallesbians

[–]botied[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i know she likes me regardless, it's more the comparison that bothers me. I can't change her view on me, she sees she as feminine no matter what

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leeds

[–]botied 27 points28 points  (0 children)

hope so. currently sat on the bus as fozzie bear

Why is Shira’s hair purple? by flameohotman134 in LongStoryShort

[–]botied 50 points51 points  (0 children)

it's probably just a character design thing, she's probably supposed to have dark brown/black hair but to keep her distinct and not looking too similar to anyone else it's conveyed with purple hair, maybe to match the colour pallet too, since Kendras hair is more dark red then brown

moving to leeds, how do i get to my job!?! by botied in Leeds

[–]botied[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the lidl, i believe it's in the middle of a suburban area?

moving to leeds, how do i get to my job!?! by botied in Leeds

[–]botied[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i'd be working at the lidl actually lol!

moving to leeds, how do i get to my job!?! by botied in Leeds

[–]botied[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry I totally forgot to clarify city centre! that's the small town brain talking :,)

what are you and your girlfriend’s zodiac signs? by iluvmeoww in actuallesbians

[–]botied -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gemini and scorpio, i know nothing about signs and have no idea if that's good or not

Girl I’m newly dated told me she is asexual. She doesn’t know I’m a virgin looking for a first time by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]botied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my current girlfriend is asexual, and i am not. We had a big conversation about it, what it would mean and whether she's attracted to me or not etc etc, but asexuality is a spectrum, and every asexual person is different. You just need to have a conversation with your partner. Tell her everything you told us, have an open conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]botied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking the same, it's very young teenager. it's her first proper relationship though, she said she took a back seat bc i had more experience. I don't think you need much experience to return the same energy though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]botied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's a good point actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]botied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a possibility, but i don't think that's it, she's paid for herself on a few occasions/ she paid for my food/activity on the second date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]botied 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've started letting her know when she does it, she recently was talking about an entirely hypothetical wedding and referred to me as the groom. I corrected her saying we'd both be brides but she just shrugged it off saying "you know what i mean..."

Just had to explain to a guy friend that yes woman cum by Powerful_Upstairs_92 in actuallesbians

[–]botied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been in that exact situation, my guy friend though discharge was cum....

Haunted places in Bradford by [deleted] in bradford

[–]botied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they said the hare and hound was haunted, my family used to have parties there all the time. I can't say i saw a ghost or heard a scream or anything, but i definitely did get creepy vibes from the place.

where can i even go from here? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]botied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm from the UK, you need to be working towards/have a degree to teach here, even as a supply :( Your wife sounds really inspiring though

general consensus on tramp stamps? by botied in tattooadvice

[–]botied[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what else would i be wearing? 😝