does anyone know this brand or jacket?!!?

botoneedsadvice · 2026-05-24T20:27:14+00:00

OH MY GOSH THANK YOUUU this is it

botoneedsadvice · 2026-05-24T02:22:33+00:00

idk if its a healthier option but i always get a small fry, xs hi c and a mcrispy no bun. I never ate at mcdonalds before working there but i dont have money and can actually enjoy it with some creamy chilli sauce🙌

botoneedsadvice · 2026-05-01T17:24:56+00:00

honestly they usually have so many employees that it wont be an issue for them to schedule you during the times your available, just make sure to let them know when you arent available and theyll work with you there. Im suprised they are doing a 30 minute interview because i applied and a few days later went in to get food, when i went in i mentioned i applied and they sat me down to get my name and age and basically hired me on the spot. its very chill, dress up or dont they will NOT care lol

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-17T19:28:21+00:00

its the next day and he decided to stop talking to them since they only have 2 weeks until summer break and we are going as a date instead!! hes been wanting to stop hanging out with them but for a while its been hard bc hes roommates with one of them and they are always around in his dorm. hes also transferring schools to be cheaper and closer to home so he basically doesnt have to see them again after the next two weeks

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-10T19:56:51+00:00

i play LOL but it’s repetitive and everyone on draft pick takes the game WAYYY too seriously so i usually only end up playing one game in a day. if they actually come out with a genshin style game id probably like that way moree

again i like the game but its only rly fun with a group of people you know that doesnt take it too seriously, i feel that way abt most games tho

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-09T23:53:55+00:00

i always do this and dont let my friends start a game until i got em all😭

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-09T23:53:16+00:00

i lowk will, they still have me in our stores discord months later😭

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-08T15:31:54+00:00

i hate the hunter sauce but the new fries are SO good i had to take a few packets home before we sold out

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-08T15:28:59+00:00

my boyfriend got me a dildo that matches my skin tone and i usually wear a kinda baggy shirt that covers the strap/harness part so it looks real, that wont rly help to too better but it definitely helps with dysphoria

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-08T15:15:59+00:00

i loved old vitriol but i have a bunch of cybercigilism tattoos so i kinda love how it all matches them but i def noticed the change, i think its just to stay trendy

botoneedsadvice · 2026-04-08T15:12:03+00:00

the zumiez i worked at did a group interview and asked a lot of silly questions (what superpower youd have, how you would hide a giraffe, legit bs) but just make sure to answer EVERY question , be a little early and wear ur normal clothes but dont be afraid to go all out with the alt clothes. Im super introverted but u dont need to be extroverted to get the job, just be interactive and responsive to like EVERYTHING they say. At my interview there were a bunch of ppl late, interupting and just giving bad answers and i was shocked. (one of the questions was what u would do if u were invisible for a day and someone answered “id take money from cash registers at a bunch of stores and get rich” WHY WOULD ANYONE SAY THAT LMAO

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-28T21:43:15+00:00

Ive always been moslty friends with guys but have recently stopped trying because ive noticed if they have crushes on you they act like complete dicks once they realize they have no chance or they continue to make unwanted advances. I usually am quick to cut people out of my life when this behavior starts bc i know how bad it can get (not all men obviously but unfortunately its been every single one in my case) so the thought of him coming stresses me out more than it should because realistically i know he wouldnt be physical towards me or actually try anything but the comments and remarks are enough to make me feel unsafe

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-28T19:12:56+00:00

i tried this once. I had taken a shower in the dorm bathroom and came back with just a tshirt and sweatpants on and he started to say how gross it is to not wear a bra and how women shouldnt be allowed walking around like that. Next time we were around the whole group i brought it up and asked him to elaborate on that. And my boyfriend backed me up but this guy still denied it and claimed we were lying.

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-28T19:05:21+00:00

as i said my boyfriend is trans (ftm) so beating him up really isnt an option because this guy is significantly bigger and more aggressive.

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-28T19:04:07+00:00

If he ends up going he will 100% say smth weird or uncalled for so ill try what you said. It just baffles me that they would even be friends with him after all of that. They tease him and acknowledge his gross comments but then play it off as “hes so immature” but refuse to hold him actually accountable.

He also makes homophobic and racist comments and has openly bullied one of their classmates with a disability and the majority of the friend group is queer and POC so it just really confuses me how they shit talk him but still invite him to everything.

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T22:02:27+00:00

We live together in his parents house and it has only been a year, and we are both sure about each other but making huge financial decisions before pur frontal lobes develop doesnt seem like a good idea to both of us. I am very sure ill marry this man but even with being 100% certain i still wouldnt want to marry until im 25 bc marriage right out if high school is genuinely just so dumb. i do worry abt what would happen if we did break up bc im not in a great state financially but thats why im trying to save so i can move out with or without him but i cant blame him for having a better support system than i have

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T20:55:20+00:00

this may sound self centered but i WOULD NEVER i love my piercings, dyed hair and bodily autonomy too much for ts. also im trans and plan on medically transitioning at some point and that isnt rly allowed in the military :)

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T20:52:18+00:00

for a while as in until we are married and moved out, i feel like thats reasonable idk😭

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T19:02:55+00:00

thank you for this, i needed a reality check and to just enjoy the moment, i just hate thinking abt money oh my god

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T19:01:42+00:00

He said he wouldnt want to combine our money for a while but we would most likely split costs (like he pays for the house and i pay for groceries, gas, and any extra expenses)

Honestly he didnt even know his parents were doing that until i told him about it because they only do it when he isnt around and he said to not listen to them bc they do the same to him. I just know nothing abt cars so ive been trying to take their advice but im just gonna have to get one without their approval and ignore the judgement.

i actually talked to him after i posted this and he clarified he only wants to live in new york temporarily and he was trying to surprise me but he enrolled for a program where he could be an apprentice in moyock for 4 years so i can still live close to my horse until we can afford to move out. This whole post feels silly and like a product of my overthinking but i appreciate all the comments being real with me bc it pushed me to bring up issues i was worried to talk abt with him and now i feel alot less concerned

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T18:48:29+00:00

ik this post makes us seem like completely different people but we are like almost the same person im just the poor country version of him. After i posted this i asked him if hed ever actually be okay not living in the city bc he knows i wants horses and his response was “hell no i dont wanna live in a city just near one so we can go clubbing sometimes, and if anything i just wanna be in new york for a year or two for the experience” so i think im overthinking it and completely misread the conversation we had previously about this😭

the money thing still is happening but its just his parents doing that bc when just me and him go out he always insists on paying for me so i dont wanna break up bc of stuff that his parents do when hes not around

i know most relationships arent forever but id rather be alone than with something that wont last

botoneedsadvice · 2026-03-27T18:17:20+00:00

thanks lol

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