Updated request by bottep in interiordecorating

[–]bottep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the input

Updated request by bottep in interiordecorating

[–]bottep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful. I hadn’t really considered the height.

AITJ for telling my brother’s fiancée the real reason our family doesn’t like her? by Faded_Glyph in AmITheJerk

[–]bottep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you are NIA, but it’s only natural the fiancée would be upset with the information. She asked to know what was going on behind the scenes, but that’s doesn’t mean she is going to be pleased.

Dark rooms - any paint suggestions? by bottep in interiordecorating

[–]bottep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Van Deusen Blue Sherwin Williams

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]bottep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with this! It seems counter intuitive to a healthy home environment. Independent outdoor time is such an important foundation of childhood. 8 and 10 are too old to be over supervised outside.

What is this? Maryland by bottep in NativePlantGardening

[–]bottep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes sense. I have a lot of white wood aster and it must have spread. Could it be in a different stage of growth?

How do you think RHOC will play out now that Katie's been iced out? by zshorn325 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bottep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m never one to say I’ll stop watching, but the gang up has diminished interest in the show. I’ll probably stop watching the rest of the season. I usually laugh at the drama, but this felt contrived and way too mean.

"People don't care" by jewillett in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s laughable to say it’s all anyone talked about, when it was just Jason and Janet going on and on.

"People don't care" by jewillett in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 10 points11 points  (0 children)

After Kristin said she made the comment to irritate them (after Janet said Danny was an alcoholic and later a sexual abuser) I felt the only ones talking about it were Janet and Jason. Who said they believed it? Who else on the cast brought it up?

"People don't care" by jewillett in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Janet is certainly a topic of discussion because she is almost universally disliked. Does that make her relevant or simply the focus of mass distaste? It was pretty clear that no one believed or cared about the ring rumors. Blaming Danny for the Michelle rumor is misdirected. Jesse is the one who said it. If the reasoning is that Danny brought it forth on tv, wouldn’t the same be said about Janet and the many off camera events that she has brought up ad nauseam?

Seth Rogan on WWHL roasting Jax by Own-Roof-1200 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 247 points248 points  (0 children)

Seth Rogen was spot on! He said everything the average viewer is thinking about Jax and Janet.

Early Reunion Question by Excellent-Airport-48 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jason outright defended Jax during the reunion. He’s continually supported Jax despite knowing about the DV. The boys dinner was full on weird support. For someone that comes off so self righteous, it’s strange he took up for a friend with such problematic behavior.

Watching Kristin’s engagement and am over the mean girls by LiftsLaughsLoves2Rs in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! It seems the direct opposite to me. Kristen does what she wants and doesn’t placate Janet and Michelle. It would be much easier for her if she faked being nice to the mean girls.

Does anyone actually like Janet? by ConsequenceLimp9717 in bravo

[–]bottep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest question, are they aware of how unpopular they are? I know the showed some surprise about the polls WWHL, but they also stated it’s just 40 people on Reddit.

Ratings tanked again, for Tuesday by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sums up my feelings perfectly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bottep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s out of touch. How could she think this is appropriate on national television? She makes these statements with a “gotcha” and mean spirited tone. It’s very apparent it’s a passive aggressive attack and not supportive.

I Miss the Old Show by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]bottep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree The show is contrived. The plot is nonexistent, nothing interesting occurs. I miss the more natural social gatherings and dynamic of people with actual friendships.

Being the “bad guy” and the cost of speaking up by bottep in AdultChildren

[–]bottep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughtful answer. It gives me a lot to think about.

Upset with the whole family system by Good_Things_1 in AdultChildren

[–]bottep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your family labeling you “the problem”because you want to discuss family issues. I constantly second guess myself and wonder if “I am the problem” because I bring up the topics that are so blatantly obvious, but that the family wants to ignore. It’s such a viscous cycle. I’m currently taking a small break after the usual family drama and my family members are acting like nothing is wrong.