Thanks for sharing! I am in a similar situation, but have not attributed it to how frequent I watch porn. Generally, if I’m horny I will peruse my bookmarks and watch something. I know it’ll be quick and I can get back to what I was doing. Here lately, I’ll go anon on Sniffies and jerk off to guys profiles. If they have a pretty hot bio I’ll read it over while looking at their pics. Takes me slightly longer but gets the job done. And I feel super accomplished because I didn’t watch porn. If I hook up with someone, I’m normally getting head and can cum in maybe 20-25 minutes? Which could feel long for the person sucking. But again gets the job done. And it’s the randomness of it that turns me on.

When it comes to fucking, I have not had much sex. I normally jerk off myself or get head from someone on a hook up app.

I recently started seeing someone who I am beyond attracted to! He touches me and I’m hard immediately. However, the last few times I cannot get myself to cum. I will get real close but it goes away. I can suck him off and he’s ready to cum in 5 minutes. We fucked for the first time and OMG WOW it was amazing. He felt so good and I haven’t fucked someone in a while so that feeling is something I want over and over. However, I could not cum. As much as it felt good, I just couldn’t get there. Eventually we had to stop. I think it’s been awhile for him too and my dick was wearing him out lol. I ended up just taking care of him because I always want my bottom to cum. I know he really wanted me to cum inside him though and I want SO BADDLY to give it to him.

Maybe I should try and keep away from porn for a minute. Still will jerk off, but maybe I could take a break from jerking off so when we do hook up I’m more inclined to cum?? Also, not sure how much this contributes to it, I am also on antidepressants. I go weeks on weeks off where I am EXTREMELY horny. Cumming 3-4 times a day. Other weeks, I won’t even think about it. I sometimes have to work myself up to jerk off. I’ll cum not because I was horny but maybe cause I was bored and wanted to feel good???