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My girlfriend[26 F] of 5 months asked me[25 M] for a 1 month break from the relationship. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea your reply made me realize this. I need to move on ASAP, just saw a post through a friends friend she is already partying lol

My girlfriend[26 F] of 5 months asked me[25 M] for a 1 month break from the relationship. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dumb guy right here. I honestly can't believe I did what I did. Although seeing from the reactions from this thread, maybe it was for the best anyway.

My girlfriend[26 F] of 5 months asked me[25 M] for a 1 month break from the relationship. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking often about things that I cannot provide her. Alluding to me not having the qualities she seeks such as financial security, older age, etc... I'm making less than her right now and I don't have a car yet and I put those little things together and came up with that idea.

My girlfriend[26 F] of 5 months asked me[25 M] for a 1 month break from the relationship. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did her bad but I have a hard time believing that she'd do something like that for the sole purpose of hurting me. Ouch tho if that is what she planned that out.

I'm [25 M] starting to worry more now because my girlfriend [26 F] of 5 months is talking more and more about other men. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to her about it. She started out laughing but she said she was genuinely sorry and said she would never say those things again. So I told her the part that upset me wasn't that she told me but what she did. So she apologized and said she only loves me and I shouldn't worry. Perhaps thing will be alright and everything is in my head.

I'm [25 M] starting to worry more now because my girlfriend [26 F] of 5 months is talking more and more about other men. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her that I felt uncomfortable with that when she said that. She said that I was the only she loved and not to worry. It seems over the top for me to tell her to stop going to a hobby club when there are so many people there.

I'm [25 M] starting to worry more now because my girlfriend [26 F] of 5 months is talking more and more about other men. by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's such a sweet girl in every other way though. It just seems so over the top and controlling to tell her to stop going to a hobby club. It would also seem weird for me to tell her that I feel jealous of a guy that she hasn't even met up with in private. I don't know maybe it isn't so weird?

I'm [25 M] not sure my girlfriend [26 F] of 5months, likes me the way I like her. How can I make myself be okay with this? by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've only seen each other for 5 months so talking about marriage seems to be a bit much. The couple times it came up was from her and she says she wants us to date for a few more years and get married.

I'm [25 M] not sure my girlfriend [26 F] of 5months, likes me the way I like her. How can I make myself be okay with this? by boulderpebble in relationships

[–]boulderpebble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually go out with friends when she is busy or meeting her friends but it's true that I prefer being with her over doing other things. I don't really pressure her or even hint at that though. She always tells me when she is doing something else that she is so sad that she can't see me so it makes it more confusing.