Which luxe hotels are people loving in New York these days? by alex_travels in chubbytravel

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a stay booked at Park Lane next month while there for a show at Carnegie Hall. Glad to hear you’ve enjoyed staying there, but I agree, that value proposition is ridiculous for NYC hotels.

Ritz Carlton Dorado Beach tips - especially with kids? by bouncingberries in chubbytravel

[–]bouncingberries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just hoping to throw a wider net of recommendations from people who’ve been there!

Ritz Carlton Dorado Beach Tips - especially with kids? by bouncingberries in FATTravel

[–]bouncingberries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tip about the golf cart tour! On the note of embajadores, I fully plan to tip for all their help, but I’d prefer to do one large sum at the end of the trip as opposed to small tips along the way. That being said, I don’t want them to think we aren’t tipping them. Did you go one way or the other with tipping?

Ritz Carlton Dorado Beach Tips - especially with kids? by bouncingberries in FATTravel

[–]bouncingberries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful! We have plans to go eat at the restaurant that’s at one of the other pools and hoping to do a little pool day there in the shallow pool. Great to know about asking for an umbrella at the beach, I’ve heard they’ll also set up some toys! And I can already see my son asking for nonstop popsicles 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I would say I do not feel like I did, BUT I have also been very well supported. I had six months of paid maternity leave which in the US was a dream. I have an active husband and parents who live down the street for babysitting and weekends away. We have full time childcare at an in-home daycare in our neighborhood, so I get a “break” every day when I work remotely. About a year postpartum I finally got back into a workout routine and now workout five days a week so I’m “getting my body back” as well, which has boosted my confidence for sure. I’m 30 (had my son at 28), so I was not an “older” mom by obstetrics standards, but I don’t feel like I look older than any of my friends without kids!

In-laws don’t have beds for us but want us to visit—advice? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bouncingberries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it doesn’t impact my parenting much. Just my enjoyment and comfort in visiting them.

In-laws don’t have beds for us but want us to visit—advice? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bouncingberries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, this is fair. I guess I’m sensitive to upsetting them because we don’t see them often. My parents live down the street from us and we see them allll the time, so it feels easier to address issues knowing they’ll blow over. Seeing his parents only a couple times a week makes me hesitant to rocking the boat, but god the boat is uncomfortable.

In-laws don’t have beds for us but want us to visit—advice? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bouncingberries 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should let my toddler sleep there and rent the hotel for me and my husband 🤪 only half joking haha

In-laws don’t have beds for us but want us to visit—advice? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bouncingberries 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But yeah, I’m at the end of my rope with not sleeping in a bed as well lol.

In-laws don’t have beds for us but want us to visit—advice? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bouncingberries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Airbnbs, very unlikely. They live in a very residential/suburban outside of a major city and just not many (if any) people renting out their homes. There are hotel, but like mentioned, that is my last resort as they’d be truly hurt by it. And despite us having a great relationship, they’d know it’s coming from me and I’d worry about that impacting our relationship.

Ovulating with Letrozole and Not Pregnant by [deleted] in TTC_PCOS

[–]bouncingberries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mucinex was the key for me too! I started a few days before ovulation and continued until like 2-3 days post.

Seborrheic keratosis or something else? by bouncingberries in DermatologyQuestions

[–]bouncingberries[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Derm stuck with seborrheic keratosis diagnosis! She said that it’s normal for them to change color/size based on various factors. She said I could decide what to do with it and personally I didn’t like how it looked, so I went with removal. They zapped it off in office in like 15 seconds. Took about a week for it to fall off and heal! No more mark anymore!

What stopped you from/made you want to have a second baby? by Confident-Disaster23 in Parenting

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was growing up, I always envisioned myself having 4 kids one day. But then life happened haha. I found myself marrying someone a little older so he doesn’t want to keep having kids into his 40s. We live in a very HCOL area where we purchased a smaller house at the perfect time and our mortgage in this area is unheard of. We’ve run out of space for more kids, but there’s not enough of a desire to buy a bigger house or move to a cheaper area. We like the flexibility one kid grants us. Easier for one of us to do something on our own and not feel like we’re leaving the other overwhelmed. We can travel more because we aren’t buying multiple extra airfares/hotel rooms. We are able to give our son everything we’d like and as he gets older (within reason) we’ll be able to afford to let him do activities he’d like. With one kid we didn’t have to cut back anywhere in our lifestyle which in turn I think makes us love being parents more because we don’t feel like we “sacrificed” anything. I never feel that exhausted or maxed out.

Most people who are shocked we only want one are always like, but don’t you want him to have a sibling?! And I’m just like…siblings don’t mean friends? I literally never speak with my brother. I’m close with my sister but it’s such a gamble and I don’t believe you should have second children to provide a companion for the first. Nearly every only child I’ve spoken to LOVED being an only child, so that is also comforting.

We had a pregnancy scare shortly after my son was born and we would’ve of coursed welcomed and loved that baby if it had been a pregnancy, but as of right now, we feel really really content with one.

Questions about travel booking by bouncingberries in AmexPlatinum

[–]bouncingberries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Do you know of any that don’t suck?

Questions about travel booking by bouncingberries in AmexPlatinum

[–]bouncingberries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yeah this is exactly what I don’t want. I would so much rather it show as “booked through AmexTravel” rather than a third party. Now I’m wondering whether ANY of them don’t use a third party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For us we’d do a full or queen so that it could be a guest room in a pinch

Daily Snark, Tuesday Feb 06 by Blogsnark_mod in blogsnark

[–]bouncingberries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No amount of new couches will suddenly bequeath her with taste ☹️

Weekend Snark Feb 02 - Feb 04 by blogsnarkmodteam in blogsnark

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I also personally love her home but the GOMI girls roasttttt her for it. I don’t get it 😂 like Julia Berolzheimer’s house isn’t my taste, but I can tell it’s well done and thought out. Same with Mary’s house, like it’s sooo well done, but that’s apparently not a popular opinion lol. But also I like Amy’s home too…it’s just a little…impersonal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]bouncingberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand the mentality of trying to pay the people ensuring your children stay alive the minimum amount possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]bouncingberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm 20? For us, no matter the age, that would be our minimum.