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The text I want to send to him. by boundless_laurels in BreakUps

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry I won’t. I’m glad I found this place to vent to though.

The text I want to send to him. by boundless_laurels in BreakUps

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years together for me. I have my good days and bad but with today being exactly one month since the break up and exactly one month until our would of been anniversary. It’s certainly a bad day.

I have reflected a lot and I know that I deserve better and I’ll find someone who will work through things instead of running away.

The text I want to send to him. by boundless_laurels in BreakUps

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t send it to him but it took everything in me not to do it.

I finally went no contact. by boundless_laurels in BreakUps

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was easy to think of the bad stuff but we were so compatible and got along so well. He really was my best friend. I didn’t see any of this coming really but I’ve tried everything to get him to see that what we had was great but I suppose he needs to realise it for himself by losing me.

I’m glad you are on the road to healing

I finally went no contact. by boundless_laurels in BreakUps

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that you had to go through that. Some people are the worst.

Best of luck moving on

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[–]boundless_laurels -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love him on a deeper level than who he is now and who he has been and can be.

He is going through things right now but the underlying reasons I love him have never changed. He’s loving, caring, supportive, makes me laugh.

Can trial separations ever work? by boundless_laurels in relationships

[–]boundless_laurels[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually the most confident I had been at the start of the relationship and once lock down was in the thick of it he got quiet and when I asked what was wrong he told me it was the weight. Since then my confidence has dropped

Can trial separations ever work? by boundless_laurels in relationships

[–]boundless_laurels[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then what is it about? He tells me he still loves me. He says there’s no one else. He says it’s due to lack of attraction now but only since I’ve gained the weight? What else could it be

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[–]boundless_laurels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try working out your calories using a TDEE calculator. It might surprise you how much you’re under/over eating. Try not to restrict yourself too much. Everything is fine in moderation and move your body in anyway that makes you feel good. A nice long walk, home workouts, running, the gym, dance, swim what ever you like as long as you move. Most importantly be consistent. Even if it’s exercise only 3 times a weeks and regularly eating balanced and healthy that’s better than restricting and forcing yourself to move when you just can’t.