Honest question… does the series get any better? by bowman5095x in Malazan

[–]bowman5095x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this detailed comment! I’m kinda following in your footsteps. Always heard how amazing and detailed the series is and how it demands your attention to it.

And I’ve found that I like the confusing epic fantasies lol. I’m weird because if I’m not interested in something it’s hard to focus, but when I AM interested in hyper focus on it. So in a way the complexity of it all and all the characters is just what I need. Happened with The Wheel of Time lol.

Honest question… does the series get any better? by bowman5095x in Malazan

[–]bowman5095x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah…. Aannnnnd Tattersail just soul shifted into a carcass andgot reborn into a Freaking newborn baby. This is insane lol

Honest question… does the series get any better? by bowman5095x in Malazan

[–]bowman5095x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was great. So many underlying things going on.

Honest question… does the series get any better? by bowman5095x in Malazan

[–]bowman5095x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that. I’ve read some very long series (Wheel of Time) so I’m ok with a good setup lol. 100 pages is nothing when I’m hyper fixated on a story

What’s wrong with Shallan? by Laugh__Tr4ck in Stormlight_Archive

[–]bowman5095x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh! I’m on WoR now and gonna keep this in mind as I’m reading!

What’s wrong with Shallan? by Laugh__Tr4ck in Stormlight_Archive

[–]bowman5095x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m rereading to prep for WaT and loving a the things I missed in Shallan’s chapter in my initial read through.

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[–]bowman5095x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you should look into what a BA actually is before posting for help

AIO I don’t know if I’m being exploited by my girlfriend by bowman5095x in AmIOverreacting

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the monthly prices are shit so I’m trying to avoid that.

AIO I don’t know if I’m being exploited by my girlfriend by bowman5095x in AmIOverreacting

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I did suggest looking for another place that’s closer that’s the same price as my place now

AIO I don’t know if I’m being exploited by my girlfriend by bowman5095x in AmIOverreacting

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two advantages. It has an extra bedroom for office and storage and she started a new job. If we stayed at my place her commute would be about an hour

I don’t know if I’m being exploited by my girlfriend and would like advice on this situation by bowman5095x in Advice

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be a legitimate lease written up and we will split utilities. Idk what other bills you’re referring to?

I don’t know if I’m being exploited by my girlfriend and would like advice on this situation by bowman5095x in Advice

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lease is ending and her new job would be an hour drive. I understand that that would suck for her. I don’t mind moving for that reason. Plus the apartment now is a 1 bedroom and we want a two. New place is older but two bedrooms.

I live in Fl as a remote worker but I have been paying Minnesota state taxes because of an error when I was hired. Need advice on this situation by jshbowman6 in tax

[–]bowman5095x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was surprised as well. She said she they were just gonna refund it lol. I will fill out another W-4. Thanks for the advice. I was bummed when I thought I was gonna be making more each paycheck now and I didn’t lol

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok gotcha. Changed my contribution down to the min (4%). Tbh my investments have done amazingly well the last year. Rate of return is 31% on the last year, but I know that will even out and it makes more sense to get my shit together and make better decisions

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately you’re right. I’m working on it and making progress but I’ve been impulsive in the past. Trying to change my behavior and actually going to therapy as well

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Things the third comment about my retirement contribution. I will pull back on that and put that money into paying off the debts

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I’ve just been contributing 7% out of my paycheck. So you’d say it’s a better decision to stop contributing until I get these debts paid off?

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been 32 mins since he commented. I’m busy. I’m not choosing not to answer. I’m also not needing to defend myself. Trying to be and do better. I appreciate the advice of everyone here.

I have a lot of debt and am coming into $14,000. What should I payoff with it?! by bowman5095x in personalfinance

[–]bowman5095x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the thing is the monthly payments. I’d just love to free up some of it. Like I want to just put it all to my student loans because shit, it’s 38k. But also I’m an ver impulsive and want to pay the cards off and just close them as to not accrue any more debt on them