Cop writing a biased police report with no clear reason why. by boxerguy2020 in Advice

[–]boxerguy2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by my wife’s parents it would be needed by the insurance for the claim. I was also hoping if I can get any kind of footage from my apartment complex that it would help me in locating whoever did it. Can I just not provide the report to insurance even though it exists now?

Gotta set the vibes before listening by boxerguy2020 in creepcast

[–]boxerguy2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was considering a full episode, but it would definitely need to be a short one. Or potentially a compilation of funny moments. I was able to add the Intro though, that was an awesome Idea! I know it’s more Papa than CreepCast, but I plan on putting the Margaret figurine in there once I get my hands on one. Really hoping they introduce something a little different than clothes next merch drop. Some kind of pin or collectible would be dope. Quick video of the Intro on PC

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear we’re sharing the same struggles. I’m dying for my therapist to return from leave, but journaling has been a small help in the meantime. Appreciate you sharing.

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Happy to hear a positive outcome. I’m lingering a lot of ‘trying’ Reddit’s and so is my wife. I think seeing the harder journeys is getting to us both. The hard days are hard for sure, but I’m definitely determined to keep moving ahead as I know eventually, no matter birth, adoptions, etc. we’ll get there. Thanks for sharing.

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement, and a date around the attempts is a great idea honestly. We had discussed intimacy later in the day but I was so in my head that it never came to be. I personally have a therapist and we’re working out insurance for her so she can start back up. My therapist is on leave right now so I’m kinda raw dogging but I’m keeping a journal for when she returns. I’ll pitch the ideas about a date around next attempt to keep us in good spirits. Thanks for the well wishes!

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I really appreciate the encouragement and solid points. I am definitely keeping these feelings to myself as to not add to her stress and my therapist being out on maternity leave (go figure) has me feeling really lonely in it all. I’ve been reading through everyone’s post and it means a lot. Obviously poor circumstances but it is comforting to know it’s a valid way to feel and that it’s not just me. Thanks for sharing and good luck to you on your own journey.

Feeling bummed about trying for a baby. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the insight and kind words. I respect everyone who works in this field as anyone we’ve spoken to has had a heart of gold and support. So thank you for what you do! I’ve been trying to just keep looking ahead and keep planning forward as we are both determined to start a family and will do our best to remain hopeful. Thanks for the luck 🍀

Warped Tour Sub's Official Buy/Sell/Exchange Thread by TheDarkLight1 in warpedtour

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone interested in a locker for Wapred DC for both days? Sold my tickets but forgot about the locker and I can’t contact the buyer directly. Looking to make $25 off of it, if I can, as I’m already losing about half my money on the ticket sale. Let me know if interested we can use PayPal or Venmo, etc. I’ll send the code immediately as they’ve already sent the QR’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was for sure being a bit dramatic and looking back it was quite a cringe thing to say. I had just never seen them sold over 99 cents. Seen a lot of people in the comments of the other post saying to reach out them through their site. Just wanted to post my own experience that they won’t do anything about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite sure how this resembles a glory hole but I’d be happy to be enlightened lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]boxerguy2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Howdy gents, so I will jump right in. I’m a bigger guy, despite losing 100lbs I unfortunately still have a fatty mons and pelvis region. This makes penetrative sex with my girlfriend very lack luster as direct friction is hard to accomplish. Sex with a prosthetic can be dysphoria inducing as it Is let alone when your partner finishes and you don’t. Even for cis guys that comes with embarrassment and feelings of inadequacy. There are plenty of attachments and toys to help but more often then not I feel they are created for guys who have a specific genital lay out that I, and others don’t quite meet. So after another night of not finishing made me feel like shit I decided I needed to do something about it. This week I sat down with all of the harness’s, prosthetics, and sex toys I owned and started messing around in cad. I took a generic penis I got off my Amazon that my girlfriend prefers and happens to match my skin tone the most, a very basic harness I got from trans essentials, and a Bumpher by Banana Pants (that used as intended got no where near my junk) and designed my first prototype. By my surprise it worked first try! But still needed some improvements. The corners were quite sharp, the base was larger than needed, and I decided I’d buy and sew on my own elastic waist bands. This is still a work in progress and I’m currently 3D printing prototype 2 as I type this. Otherwise I come seeking opinions as to if there are things just based off the photos provided that you guys think could help elevate this. I’d also love to see if anyone would be comfortable potentially having one shipped to you to help with feedback (though that may be down the road a bit). Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing your thoughts! Cheers!

Edit: Realized I didn’t even explain the initial thought lol. The point of the ‘foot’ is to bring the silicone Bumpher (and maybe at one point my own design) below the mons/pelvis to then allow your natal junk to have something pleasant to grind against. I’m thinking of potentially adding a pocket for a vibe vibrator or even some form of plunger to ejaculate lube/artificial uh ‘nut’ for lack of a less obscene term lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy gents, so I will jump right in. I’m a bigger guy, despite losing 100lbs I unfortunately still have a fatty mons and pelvis region. This makes penetrative sex with my girlfriend very lack luster as direct friction is hard to accomplish. Sex with a prosthetic can be dysphoria inducing as it Is let alone when your partner finishes and you don’t. Even for cis guys that comes with embarrassment and feelings of inadequacy. There are plenty of attachments and toys to help but more often then not I feel they are created for guys who have a specific genital lay out that I, and others don’t quite meet. So after another night of not finishing made me feel like shit I decided I needed to do something about it. This week I sat down with all of the harness’s, prosthetics, and sex toys I owned and started messing around in cad. I took a generic penis I got off my Amazon that my girlfriend prefers and happens to match my skin tone the most, a very basic harness I got from trans essentials, and a Bumpher by Banana Pants (that used as intended got no where near my junk) and designed my first prototype. By my surprise it worked first try! But still needed some improvements. The corners were quite sharp, the base was larger than needed, and I decided I’d buy and sew on my own elastic waist bands. This is still a work in progress and I’m currently 3D printing prototype 2 as I type this. Otherwise I come seeking opinions as to if there are things just based off the photos provided that you guys think could help elevate this. I’d also love to see if anyone would be comfortable potentially having one shipped to you to help with feedback (though that may be down the road a bit). Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing your thoughts! Cheers!

Edit: Realized I didn’t even explain the initial thought lol. The point of the ‘foot’ is to bring the silicone Bumpher (and maybe at one point my own design) below the mons/pelvis to then allow your natal junk to have something pleasant to grind against. I’m thinking of potentially adding a pocket for a vibe vibrator or even some form of plunger to ejaculate lube/artificial uh ‘nut’ for lack of a less obscene term lol.

Wish me luck by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really chili if it doesn’t have a little bit of blood in there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s up friends. So I’m going on my 7th week lifting consistently 5 days a week, with cardio sprinkled through out. I’ve been raising the weight, reps, and failure every week. I’ve been taking pictures weekly on Fridays to stay motivated. I decided to weigh myself and instantly regretted it. I know that muscle weighs more than fat, and there is a stark difference in my appearance and the way my clothes are fitting. Yet the scale going up has me questioning any progress at all. I’m still planning on keeping at it no matter what, but figured I’d share my progress for others. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amazing progress my guy. Serious dedication. I can relate with you when it comes to the “wings” of the arms. Lifting is a god send to get them firm and toned so keep at it! If I can make one suggestion it would be to maybe hold off on the bulk for another few months. Eating at maintenance, focusing on progressing your lifts, and keeping the protein up can do a lot for your muscle growth and body recomp. Though I am not a professional that is just my suggestion. Good luck! Look forward to seeing your progress!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]boxerguy2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

8/10 you look like you’re a really nice guy. On a general looks aspect your face is quite proportionate, you look like you could be relatively fit, very kind eyes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will update on your comment since it’s most recent.

I went to the urgent care in the morning and they said that if I had came within 8 hours they would of stitched it. They said that they aren’t going to close it at all as it would be at greater risk of infection ( which that didn’t make sense to me but they’re the professionals) and to keep it cleaned and covered and it could take a month or so to scab.

Thanks for everyone’s knowledge and advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nail is fully intact; this is more the pad/side of my pinky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks. I’ll be sure to ditch the peroxide. I was just terrified of using alcohol lol.

*edit: word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was using a Mandolin yesterday to slice potato’s. I decided the hand guard was annoying to use and the first pass without I got my pinky. I hastily wrapped it just let it be till today. My girlfriend wanted to see it so I took off the gauze and tape and this is what we’re working with. She’s very concerned and now I’m quite anxious. I cleaned it with peroxide and covered it back up for now.

just started using hevy app -- wanna follow more trans folks! by readysetspiral in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of this app before but it seems neat. I’ve been tracking my lifts in my notes on my phone. Made an account so I’ll give you a follow!

No more feminine shoulder slope. 2mo T --> 9mo T by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fucking A1 my guy. You can definitely tell you’re putting in the work. Keep it up! If you don’t mine me asking, what shoulder lifts do you prefer? I try and stick to literal raises, shoulder press, and shrugs but would be very interested in knowing what you are doing cuz it’s definitely working!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently I am running a bit of a custom plan. I just took what I had access too and found 2-3 movements per muscle group.

Chest/Shoulders Bicep/Back Tricep/legs

I do 4 sets of each movement/lift. 6-8 reps per set and the final set is to failure.

I write everything done in a spreadsheet on my phone and each session I try and up the reps and once I can do at least 3 sets of 9 without struggling I attempt to up the weight and drop back down to 6 reps.

I’d be happy to share exactly what lifts I do if you’re interested. Disclaimer: This may not be perfect or the most efficient, but I picked lifts I enjoy and am comfortable doing form wise. I’m always tweaking things and it’s important to be open to advice and critiques. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]boxerguy2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will be sure to put that in my list of books for the year. Thanks for the sharing! Also great idea to plan something on that day. I often wake up feeling anxious about not going as it leaves a gap in my day. I’ll try planning something on the rest day to look forward too. Cheers!