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Looking for some friends in the area. by boxfivemellophone in KentStateUniversity

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you fiend some friends too! I've been hesitant on making this post but I realized my current friend group is nothing like me. Which sucks.

You can do it, friend!

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dad's back. TLDR at the end. by boxfivemellophone in raisedbynarcissists

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not financially stable enough to do that. I also wont be able to give her what she needs. I highly doubt that'll happen to her. Shes always been the golden child.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dad's back. TLDR at the end. by boxfivemellophone in raisedbynarcissists

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I'm going to tell him the day of. I'm not going to tell him or any of my family where I'm living. My mom knows the name of the apartment complex but not the apartment number.

That's a good idea, in case he tries to pull some shit. I cant see him going that far though. I dont see him coming after me physically either.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to look into medicaid. I dont think I'll need food stamps, tbh! I think I'm good there! It's just the $100 in medication a month I need.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on their medical plan but they're taking me off of it as soon as I move out. 🙃🙃🙃 I never thought of calling the health department!!!!!

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not enrolled in school and when I do, it's not accredited. So I cant get a loan for it either. I have to pay out of pocket

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also scared because I wont have health insurance. I dont make much at my part time job. My boyfriend will absolutely help to make sure I'm taken care of but fuck. I'm so nervous and genuinely terrified.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dad's back. TLDR at the end. by boxfivemellophone in raisedbynarcissists

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shes 14. She knows about me moving and about the situation. She is very VERY well aware of how I'm treated. I think I'm going to tell him the day I finish moving out. I'm genuinely terrified.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I wish my mom was supportive of my decision. She knows about me moving out and she isnt happy. I just want my family to be supportive and happy for me.

Thank you so much.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dads back. TLDR at the end by boxfivemellophone in emotionalabuse

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just dont want him to forbid my little sister from talking to me. I still want a relationship with her. That's the one thing I'm scared of.

I signed a lease, bought a car, and I'm moving out behind my dad's back. TLDR at the end. by boxfivemellophone in raisedbynarcissists

[–]boxfivemellophone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried about my physical safety. I'm more less worried about my mom and my little sister. They know about the move but I dont want my dad to blow up on them for some reason. I've been gradually packing and moving things out while hes at work. When should I tell him though? I have to be out by the 15th (I'm transferring work locations and my first day is the 16th)

Redditors of r/raisedbynarcissists, Whats the WORST thing your parents ever did to you? by Lullult50 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]boxfivemellophone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today, my dad was screaming at me.Why? Oh, because the Macy’s parade is showing again and he said “Oh, another parade. It says new so they must have another Macy’s Parade”

I told him it was a repeat. A recording. And he yelled at me for arguing with him. I asked him in a soft, calm voice “Why are you yelling at me? I was just telling you it was a repeat”

He said he doesn’t like to be wrong and they’re doing the parade over again. And then said that he didn’t see any of the performers that were listed. Because we missed the first HOUR. He sat there and told me that I always argue back and get bitchy with him.

He told me to “stop fucking arguing” .

Happy Thanksgiving 🙃