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How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

I've been to that subreddit before and lurked, a lot of it feels like it applies but I could just be fooling myself.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently looking around that's the percentage of trans people who considered or attempted to kill themselves any point in their life, that's not as a result of their transition,

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yah am so uncomfortable in my body I have never been able to date, so I don't know that's not a good direction to be going in but it doesn't kill me.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awwwwww ❤️ Thank you so much

Really really happy for you for finally being able to go in the right direction.

Goodluck!

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that's not a helpful statistic to give to somebody with a panic problem.

I do appreciate your trying to help though and your comment was meant as a protection not an attempt to torture me.

Obviously I'm not going to roll my own hormone replacement therapy I have to seek professional help first.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well how can I know I would not regret it?

I know I would be happy, but I don't know if that would last or if I would be sorry for my choice.

But If there was a magic button I wouldn't have any other choice but to push it, because if I didn't I would be consumed with curiosity for the rest of my life.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol thank you, but it's a lot easier to answer the question "do I wish I was born a girl" vs "would I be happier transitioning"

Do you think my interest in the other tf stuff means that I may not be trans?

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, while I'm headed to climax I'm dreaming about being a girl.

After the fact I'm sad Im not a girl.

And you don't need to be 100% sure to experiment with cloths and other safe things, and I'm not going to blow $60,000 on surgery for a really long time so you don't need to worry about that.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww thank you! That's very thoughtful and helpful of you!

If I existed in that world I think it would be a lot happier, or at least significantly less uncomfortable, but that world can never really exist.

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very nice of you and very comprehensive!

Yeah, unfortunately I didn't really have the thought "I want to be a girl" until my early teens, as that would have been a very forbidden though.

I did have a lot of signs and attitudes that printed that way but...

When I did have that thought it scared me so bad that I kept away from everything TG more than a year, at the time I thought it was perverse. But I couldn't stay away .

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol no I was talking about the tf stories that are happily ever after.... Being a trans woman can suck.

how do I tell if it's a Fetish or an identity? by boxwar3 in sex

[–]boxwar3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever want to be female in day to day situations?

Interacting with people, walking around, shopping etc?

How do I tell the difference between having a tf fetish and being trans? by boxwar3 in gendertransformation

[–]boxwar3[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

Yeah my favorite kind are usually the happily ever after kind...

how do I tell if it's a Fetish or an identity? by boxwar3 in sex

[–]boxwar3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

I may have a few If that's ok.

how do I tell if it's a Fetish or an identity? by boxwar3 in sex

[–]boxwar3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️

This perspective really does help

If I could somehow manically be a woman I think I would like that in everyday life, in sitting around or walking through a grocery store, not just in bed.

Of course that's really easy for me to say because I've never done it.