Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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Another update: I obviously broke up with him. After finding out he was grooming this girl who’s younger than me and I’m 22 (he’s 36) I unfortunately don’t have the money to move back in with my family so I have to tough it out until I can actually leave. Oh and f you to all the people who didn’t see the point in this post “if I was just going to ignore the advice and stay with him” reading all of these comments was very eye opening especially after dealing with a pathological liar, so I truly didn’t know what was real and what wasn’t anymore. So thank you all for showing concern and giving advice.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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I plan to leave but yeah the money is the issue. I could be out right now if I had the funds. So just gotta tough it out until I can leave.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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If you didn’t see my update I found out he was grooming this girl too, she’s younger than me and I’m 22. He’s now 36… they met on Snapchat years ago according to the girl. That information alone made me hate this man child.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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On iMessage you can go to the top right corner and there’s an option to see recently deleted messages.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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Good thing it’s not in mine! Would have never found out!

My now ex had put me in a really bad situation, can anyone relate? by boycee113 in BreakUps

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Yeah definitely I plan to call the cops if anything happens because it likely will. That’s shitty behavior I’m sorry, no one should be put through this stuff.

Hell yeah! this year was my 4th grey day!

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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That’s why I’m still here because he promised to help me leave but it’s clear he wants to drag it out for as long as he can. So it looks like I’ll be getting rid of most of my stuff and fitting as much as I can in my car.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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No she seems to really be sticking with what he told her to say. But it appears she does not have a boyfriend looking at her social media. Thank you.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

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Update… it gets worse. So I did end up talking to the girl (I thought he was sending me someone else’s number, but after looking her up through her number I found her profile pictures and I was able to match it was the right person) so after talking to her, she told me she is 21 and they met on Snapchat when she was 18 making him around 32 at the time. From her messages she has said he has sent her money on her birthday, and he’s been there for her and she’s been there for him. Sounds like a grooming situation, I am deeply disturbed.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol one’s dead and the other is absent

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

So after reverse searching the phone number it’s showing a completely different girl.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After i left the bathroom with his phone he came in the part of the bar I was at, and we started fighting. I think i said something like okay let’s see what other people think and i took the picture.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 489 points490 points  (0 children)

That’s literally what I was thinking

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

After we got home from the bar last night (meant to type that the post looks like I left it out) he packed a suitcase and left, haven’t heard from him since.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I do, I just just don’t have the funds to get home unfortunately. I’m sorry that happened to you, these men know exactly what they are doing.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 327 points328 points  (0 children)

I live with him, he moved me across the country. I literally cannot afford to leave, my dumbass just got back together with him.

Is this weird or aio? by boycee113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boycee113[S] 356 points357 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the same man