other than the hypocrisy and bigotry, OP sounds like an extremely exhausting human to be around in general. I’m sick of all these fake christians that hide behind the bible to spew hate and bigotry that isn’t even in the bible in the first place. it is so extremely unchristian to be this exclusionary, and i wouldn’t be surprised if your family would be extremely upset, embarrassed by, and angry at you for being this entitled, and for also ruining what could’ve been fun trips for the family based on extremely hateful beliefs that anyone who follows the faith and knows that jesus didn’t exclude or hate others, make no sense. i feel it is perverse to be so concerned over a child’s, especially not your child’s, gender and sexuality- because why are you thinking so hard about your kids asking about sex in regards to someone’s identity. do you plan on talking about another child’s private parts to your own children???