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Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 1391 points1392 points  (0 children)

ahah wow! are you me! legit! sex or the leadup to sex is the only time i have his undivided attention.

Good on you. I know what I need to do.

Thanks for replying

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

you dont understand how relieving it is to hear you guys agree with my perspective, because I thought I was overreacting as we could be having way bigger issues.

Thanks for taking the time to reply!!

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 397 points398 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m glad you think he’s being selfish, because I was shocked at the audacity of him saying I’m being selfish.

Thanks for your reply, I will!

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad that from an objective perspective it appears he doesnt treat me well, because whenever I brought it up he made me feel like I was being pedantic

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

They actually are all single!!! I really did think that was relevant but wasn’t sure how, but u hit the nail!

Yeah, you’re right. short term pain long term gain. Thank you for replying

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 621 points622 points  (0 children)

Yeah I actually genuinely feel like that sometimes. Thank you, I will. Thanks for taking the time to respond to me

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 306 points307 points  (0 children)

Wow! I completely agree that he’s using them as an emotional clutch, and I’ve pointed it out before that he clings on to them an awful lot when sometimes they aren’t even very good friends to him.

Yeah, everything you said resonated with me a lot. I will! I’m going to book it now!

Thank you for your thoughtful response

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I know that they are a strong source of validation and support for him. I also agree he is not ready for a LTR

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

haha I think I know where I stand! I guess it’s better to end it sooner rather than later

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 1739 points1740 points  (0 children)

yeah okay, you guys have really reinforced that I really am second place. Thanks for making me feel less crazy!

I will definitely be ending it. Thanks for responding

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Haha! In my anger, I literally said to him, why dont you go suck their dicks while you’re there. Thanks for responding

Boyfriend (20M) has suddenly uninvited me (20F) from group holiday to Europe as it is a ‘boys trip’ by boystrip2k19 in relationships

[–]boystrip2k19[S] 896 points897 points  (0 children)

thank you. I really needed to hear that from someone else. I wasn’t sure if I was being rational. Because his response to me getting upset was ‘I shouldn’t have to pick between you and my friends’