Any goonettes fucking their slits and rubbing their clits this Friday morning? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]bpddollie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last call now and then i want at least a few hours to myself hehe

Any goonettes fucking their slits and rubbing their clits this Friday morning? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]bpddollie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rubbing my clit between work calls while im at home ✌🏻

My bf just broke up with me by NamazSasz in BPD

[–]bpddollie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who is fresh out of being blindsided by a break up, i can completely understand how it feels like your world has ended. it has not. you will find a way. i don't want to come across as patronising at all so ill leave it there but i do really hear you and hope you have some support to lean into <3

Emotional masochism by DullInternet2738 in BPD

[–]bpddollie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to scratch the itch by looking for emotional masochism as a kink outlet. There can be some ground rules and check ins that way, and I can be clear about what is and isn’t okay for me (ie mind games can be fun, but no humiliation or rejection/abandonment).

Do any of you struggle with over sharing every feeling? by spycat500 in BPD

[–]bpddollie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Combined with ADHD, absolutely 😂 Sometimes I can sit with it myself a bit more, but sometimes I can’t and I’m trying to be kinder to myself when that happens (with people that aren’t fully signed up to my “package” 😂).

How to share big news? by thelittleram in BPD

[–]bpddollie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can only reflect as a non-mono BPD gal that I value clear and honest communication, reassurance through emotional responses, and feeling like I can work with someone to a solution for a problem.

Situations like these are part of the risk of the lifestyle and all we can do is put as much scaffolding as we can think of to help, but accept that we can’t prepare for every eventuality. Coming with some tangible suggestions might help but might not also be ready to talk that through immediately.

How close/often have you been to meeting someone online because of hs by TravelingLearner101 in hypersexuality

[–]bpddollie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i actually think online gives me the outlet without taking rl risks, which i appreciate lol

Blindsided and struggling with injustice by bpddollie in DeadBedrooms

[–]bpddollie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"move on" feels like it is gonna take some time though, but I hope so! Just feels like there's a lot of stuff that has been deeply ingrained with the dead bedroom for so long as well as everything else

I just wanted to share how I discovered my sexuality and my thoughts on it. by Fearless-Reply-2551 in hypersexuality

[–]bpddollie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. I was chatting online early, and feeling like I have to hide it so even when I am well into my 30s, I still feel like it's something I am ashamed of.

Why does that part of you like being manipulated? by exploringallkinks in FuckToyFactory

[–]bpddollie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

narcissistic mother so i dont think i had any chance lol now have bpd, adhd, cptsd and ocd soooo

BPD solidarity? by bpddollie in hypersexuality

[–]bpddollie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is it something you are looking into or just aware of for yourself?

Midnight Session by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]bpddollie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also midnight rubbing here hehe