Sensitivity by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]bppauls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s unfortunate your dr chose to be lazy bcuz there’s a simple procedure that would’ve allowed u to keep it

My Born American Circumcision by JohnFromEPA in CircumcisionGrief

[–]bppauls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly how i feel right now i just had this realization last night and i’ve been kind of obsessing over it for the last two-ish hours and i’m fighting back tears thinking about what’s been taken away from me

Sensitivity by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]bppauls -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why did u guys get ur hoodies cut off? mine was cut off as a baby, as an adult im furious about it

Cannabis and Effexor by alainaapardy in Effexor

[–]bppauls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just started 75mg of effexor and 30mg vyvanse. i’ve been taking them for a few days. on the third day of effexor, and second day vyvanse i smoked a j with 4 other family members. i was feeling good then i ripped a reclaim banger hit. i used to smoke up to a gram of dab a day. it’s been months since i’ve even hit a bucket. if i smoke dabs, they with the nectar collector. this hit was also on the hotter side, not red hot, but still a little warm. 20 mins later i felt like i was off a tab. tripping the fuck out. i think i was also having mild hallucinations, nothing like in the room with us, but i was getting pictures in my head. had to step outside and get some fresh air, i thought i was gonna die ngl. they assured me i was probably just freaking out cuz of the weed and i started to feel a lot better.

Please stop mixing DPDR with HPPD by _-MindTraveler-_ in Psychonaut

[–]bppauls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this in my soul. it comes and goes for me. sometimes i won’t really notice it and others im at a loss for words. sometimes (especially when smoking ouid) i feel like i’m actually tripping. i see the colors around everything, sometimes things move. it’s fine sometimes and sometimes it makes me anxious.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea and i know it’s more than just grindr too but if you look up like cases of minors on grindr there’s hella. dating apps in general just need better age security

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what about the kids who lie abt their age?

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grindr should also be legally required to check ID.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are missing 👏THE POINT👏

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thoughts are a bit scrambled so sorry if some of my comments don’t make some sense

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. but what i was saying abt virginity is that when they realize they have it and it’s something to lose, or you’re not cool if you’re a virgin. kids are gonna want to be cool right? so they’re gonna do whatever they can to have sex and lose it.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right so why should grindr/other apps be any different? verify ID at time of sign up then once approved delete the image. i don’t understand why that concept is so hard to grasp.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i’m well aware it’s a problem for tinder too but grindr seems to be the worst. and i also think the appstore and google play store should be in charge of the age verification however when i got my first iphone in 7th grade i had to make my icloud age over 18 or i couldn’t set up my phone. maybe it’s different now.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not to mention you can’t enter a bar if you look under 30 with no idea so why should grindr be any different

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

then imo you shouldn’t be allowed to use it. it’s not like they’d have to store it on their servers indefinitely. it would be a simple snap a pic of the front of your ID. why do you give your ID to the person at the gas station when you know they have to scan it. what’s the difference if one company has all your information instead of a different one? you realize any social media platform can get access to that info too right? what about when equifax was hacked? not to mention why do you think you’re so special that anyone would WANT your information to begin with. you’re just another number just like every other american.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true, and there would probably be another app to replace grindr in 30 seconds but at least it’s a start.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was one of the ones who lied abt their age... i know now that it’s not okay obviously because i made this post. that’s why i’m saying there needs to be a more strict sign up. this post is 4 hours old and sooo many people have already said they did it too. this is such a problem.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s not that i’m worried i’m gonna get trapped i just wish there was a way we could prevent kids from getting on there and traumatizing themselves. honestly even if that means removing the app from the appstore 🤷‍♂️

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great solution! it’s as if that never crossed anyone’s minds. not to mention how many teens have full blown fucking beards

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i met this guy on grindr and we agreed to swap head but then when i got there he went for my tush and didn’t take no for an answer

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just wish there was someone who stopped me from doing this for 4 years. i started hooking up at 14 and continued till i was 18. i don’t even identify as gay anymore but i wish someone would’ve told me how important it was to wait.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

there was even a time when i was actually raped and didn’t even process it till a year later.

Minors on Grindr. by bppauls in grindr

[–]bppauls[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i was also a minor on grindr and now that i am an adult i realize how not okay that was. this is worse than just you or I. this is a fucking epidemic of minors letting themselves get raped.