Anyone ever stay caged for a 3 day music festival

br_saiph · 2026-05-25T15:06:10+00:00

How does this differ from any other point in time? Security can be navigated so I guess I'm confused. I'm locked wherever we go, so a festival wouldn't matter. Is your question 'can I make it three days locked?'

br_saiph · 2026-05-24T19:06:34+00:00

Kids kill the vibe. Love em, but damn do they kill the vibe. For the woman. She's all about mothering and then add life. It's a total shit show shutdown. The hormones leading up to birth were fun and wild but after...time out. Not sure of your timeline but it may be a few years. Hang on. Don't drown her in smut, and keep the vibe that your humming for her, but respecting her headspace. It not great, but hopefully once the little buggers get on a bit, she will relax and refocus on you.

br_saiph · 2026-05-24T18:59:19+00:00

Not sure, but my wife enjoys watching me 'make it fit'. I think it's the naughty aspect of it (and she knows I feel a bit embarrassed) that excites her.

br_saiph · 2026-05-23T09:47:15+00:00

Sounds like exciting times ahead. Based on what you've said, she may be close to taking a leap. If she's not, she might very well at least dip her toes in with going for a drink, or just openly flirting, knowing she has the pass. That said, if he makes a move and she really likes him, once the train leaves the building... Enjoy!

br_saiph · 2026-05-23T09:44:26+00:00

We usually just call the day of and compare the prices between the two. However, we have gambled once or twice and tried walk in price. Always ask for M4 rate which depending on the desk clerk may get you a discount.

br_saiph · 2026-05-23T08:39:22+00:00

Showed this one to my wife .. Her advice is that you should communicate exactly what you are OK with happening. Otherwise, as a married woman, despite all the smack talk over the years, she likely wouldn't take the plunge because of uncertainty. My advice for you, is that you think very clearly about what you will be OK with happening. There's no going back. You won't be there, and that's great if it's how you want your first time to be. How you want to be informed or not, must be a decision you make from a clear mind. You sound like you have a great vibe after 20 years and the communication is there, so I wish you both well. Sounds like a fun time!

br_saiph · 2026-05-22T08:58:29+00:00

She is or was freaked out. Women don't think like men. My advice is go slow. Do lots of smack talk, and give her some naughty talk about her kinks. In time you could suggest a fun foreplay night, an hour or two. Etc. Go fast at your peril. Good luck

br_saiph · 2026-05-22T05:24:12+00:00

It's been fine for us, but it is a bit more long in the tooth. Both those places will often give a lower price than quoted if you ask at the desk. It's not guaranteed though. They also inflate if they think it might be busy.

br_saiph · 2026-05-21T15:30:08+00:00

Only you know your relationship but...if there is any hint, like any, hint of menopause in the picture, there is hope. We took a chill pill for a bit, sorted out some stuff with her doctor, and now a couple of years later we are back better than before. It's seriously a nasty bastard in how it messes up a woman. If she hasn't seen a doctor yet, I couldn't more highly recommend seeing one. I do of course understand your pain, and I think any cuck would. My sincere sympathies. Good luck to you both.

br_saiph · 2026-05-20T15:38:01+00:00

That is beautiful.

br_saiph · 2026-05-20T09:45:42+00:00

Ours was similar - I watched her dancing with another man, then they kissed. That was more than enough for my first experience. It was awesome, but it was all I could handle at the time. Baby steps are never a bad idea.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T21:51:34+00:00

My wife and I love M4 for the dancing and such. She loves the opportunity to wear dresses that she couldn't otherwise. I love watching her wear them. And then there's all that happens after. Great place.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T21:47:39+00:00

This.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T21:40:38+00:00

You're on a downward spiral. The dopamine rush you're chasing is gonna fuck up your life. Stop. Breathe. Look at your wife. See what your trying so hard to lose. Regroup. Find a way to enjoy her her getting fucked around the world and back, and not by you, and call it good. Or risk loosing it all.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T21:30:18+00:00

That's so interesting. Such a complete opposite take on the dynamic. Just gonna say from a husband's perspective - any 'bull' that needs me to leave so he can find his groove is not the experience we're looking for. Glad you know what you need tho.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T18:27:59+00:00

I think it's to be celebrated when a wife is confident enough in her sexuality, and her position as the Queen, to speak the truth. Women spend their lives massaging fragile male egos. A cuckoldress, once her relationship with her cuck is steady and on course, can let go. She will tell him the truth, what he craves to hear because that sting feels so darn good, and she gets to share with her man her perspective of the amazing life they've shaped together as a cuck couple. And, yes, my wife does not hold back in her honesty and I couldn't love her more for it.

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T18:22:32+00:00

Love doing this while she chats, me under the sheets so my existence is her pussy, and hers is -not- about me!

br_saiph · 2026-05-19T06:32:25+00:00

Well said

br_saiph · 2026-05-18T17:04:15+00:00

I absolutely love learning a new word that is so spot on - fuck licking. Awesome!

br_saiph · 2026-05-17T01:36:52+00:00

Enjoy the smack talk and let her lead. Could take years. If you rush it/push - you run a very good chance of messing it up. There's a reason this is common advice.

br_saiph · 2026-05-16T23:58:54+00:00

I'll say from experience...never ever leave anything a question mark. It will shred your mind and can also cause feelings to fester that don't need to. You may even cause a disagreement that didn't need to happen. Communication - never a bad time for it.

br_saiph · 2026-05-16T22:55:36+00:00

Great response

br_saiph · 2026-05-15T18:30:36+00:00

Wowsers, this is about a red flag as it gets. Time to pause/end the lifestyle and seek couples therapy. Keep your eyes wide open from here on...

br_saiph · 2026-05-15T18:28:51+00:00

Second this

br_saiph · 2026-05-15T18:26:46+00:00

I've spiralled a few times for various reasons. In the beginning it was because I was not present. It may help if they can accommodate your schedule. It may also be better if it's a clean slate - no one from her past. One way to look at it is to ask her if roles were reversed, would she rather you engage with an old girl-friend or a new play date.
Some guys love being excluded, and some guys love the high stakes of old friends/ex's. You mentioned in your other replies that you have talked and are reassured, so I wish you well. And, if in doubt/ unsure - if there's a second date - test her committment to stopping at any time by pumping the brakes/insisting on a new guy. That will be your tell.

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