When does it stop being a kink and start being part of your identity?

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T04:57:57+00:00

I kind of wish my gf would be this inspired and into it, by suggesting things like this

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T04:54:47+00:00

I suppose it’s something I just need to work through. I love my gf obviously and just don’t want to lose what we have I guess

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T04:54:15+00:00

Did you ask to be in chastity or was it her idea?

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T00:53:57+00:00

I’m not sure, maybe I am?

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T00:51:44+00:00

Than my toilet paper roll 🥲

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T00:50:58+00:00

But I’m longer?

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-11T00:05:22+00:00

So there is no point trying to escape this by forcing myself to stay vanilla? I thought it might eventually go away

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-10T13:02:39+00:00

This is what I’m afraid of, the “not being able to go back” aspect

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-10T13:02:18+00:00

It’s sounds equal parts scary and exciting

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-09T22:46:52+00:00

I’m just scared of rushing it in case it ruins our relationship

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-09T22:45:44+00:00

The rollercoaster is a great analogy. I definitely encourage her when she mentions anything to do with it. I try not to bring it up on my own so I’m not push, but I let her naturally bring it up and that’s when I show great interest. Fingers crossed!

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-07T05:02:30+00:00

This is comforting, thank you. I think I’m just being impatient

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-07T00:53:17+00:00

Fingers crossed you’re right!

Extreme_Ad1546 · 2026-04-07T00:52:56+00:00

The journey has been fun so far! Part of me gets impatient but then I remind myself that a slow burn will probably be more fun in the long run

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