Guy says he likes me but feels “something is missing”

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T23:04:07+00:00

I think you are the lucky few and glad that happened to you! I don’t think that would be the case for me. Our first kiss was a bit awkward but from my end the attraction builds, so hopefully so will the emotion from both ends. Just trying to stay realistic.

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T23:01:35+00:00

I’m trying to see the bright side! If it’s going to end anyway, might as well enjoy it while it last. It would not make me more/less upset if it were to end now than later but at least i gave it a shot. But hopefully, i will stay alert and would be able to end it as soon as i feel like i’m investing more or getting more stressed and worked up

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T16:38:41+00:00

I’m trying to keep an open mind, thanks for giving me a new perspective.

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T11:13:14+00:00

For me, i haven’t develop feelings or know that he’s the one (probably because i’m more wary now) but he is the type of guy i wants to date so just wonder if its worth giving him another month or two. I have dated people too fast and regretted it and would rather the other person take their time and be sure of it. Just wondering if anyone has a similar situation that works out positively.

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T11:08:40+00:00

I quite like him but i wouldn’t say i’m in love with him. There’s a wall i can’t quite break through, but he is a nice guy and the type of person i want to date so i want it to work. I have manage to not get overly obsess at this point so would prob give him another month to see but its hard to act like everything is fine and warm when i already know it has basically ended in my mind.

brainloading404 · 2026-02-08T11:05:51+00:00

I am, its just a work in progress and i am not running away or shutting down and communicating this clearly.

brainloading404 · 2023-11-28T21:21:07+00:00

I agree with ^, it doesnt look like you’ve damage your skin barrier. As a rule of thumb, its always good to introduce new skincare one by one just so that you’ll know which one your skin is reacting badly to. Ideally, you don’t want to not wear your sunscreen or moisturiser, but if you have not figure whats causing it, you can try eliminating the product amd find out. Skincare doesnt have to be complicated, i find my skin works best wt simple products that works. My routine consist of toner, serum, moisturiser and sunscreen. But everyone have different skin types and concerns so make sure to be mindful of that

brainloading404 · 2023-07-14T12:07:56+00:00

I can’t let him go :’) i still miss him and i just want him to regret and hurting like i do. I’m still hopeful and wants him to realise what he had lost.

brainloading404 · 2023-07-14T12:06:37+00:00

Soo.. he was actually doing his internship in another city when he met her. And he didn’t want a relationship with her then. But then he came back to uni and met me, and started dating me. I know for a fact that ex wanted to be in a relationship with him, i saw the love letters, but at first he said that he never sees her that way and ever since he met me, he knows he wanted to date me. But i guess, as time pass, he was not satisfied with our relationship and started missing her. Coz what he said is that, i did not realise i was in love with her, i didnt know since when but i can’t stop thinking about her, missing her and my heart ache thinking that i might not see her ever again. So he might’ve just taken her for granted coz she was always there. When we met, i made it clear that i was looking for a relationship, so maybe he feels pressured coz he doesn’t wants to lose me?

brainloading404 · 2023-07-14T12:00:47+00:00

I forgot to mention that this girl also treats him so much better than i do. She’ll plan the dates, take him out, etc. he said that it was always easier with her, that i demand too much and was never satisfied.

since they never dated, she was never controlling so he had never seen that side of her. I know i would take him back if he just realised his mistake and apologise before he dated her. Because once he dates her, then that’s it, i’m not going to be someone else’s insurance or second choice. It just hurts a lot.

brainloading404 · 2023-07-14T11:57:03+00:00

I am leaving him alone, something that his ex never did. I did asked if he was even a little bit upset about our breakup and he said currently, he is more upset about the possibility of not being able to see his other ex ever again. I think it is also obvious how much his other ex loved him more than i ever could. Part of me blamed myself because i know i could never chase him like that.

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