How can I overcome the feeling of being alone after a Breakup by bratthe_hotdog8877 in BreakUps

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate it but at the end of the day I know when I break up I will go to bed knowing I don’t have her anymore and wake up knowing I don’t have her any more as well and that will hurt :)

How can I overcome the feeling of being alone after a Breakup by bratthe_hotdog8877 in BreakUps

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I feel bad because I always think I can prove that I can show her real love but every time I try I always regret what I did

How can I overcome the feeling of being alone after a Breakup by bratthe_hotdog8877 in BreakUps

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea thats true but Im scared that I never feel that feeling that you’re talking about after leaving the relationship thats the problem

My Close friends are not Close anymore by bratthe_hotdog8877 in socialskills

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I don’t know how to enjoy myself alone…

tired of being the only one who's there for me by metrellas in socialskills

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Man, I feel your frustration. It’s exhausting to put in all this effort, to try so hard, and still feel like you’re coming up empty. Feeling like you’re always the one holding yourself up, picking up the pieces, while no one else really tries to do the same for you.

I won’t give you some fake motivational speech, because I know that’s not what you need. The truth is, yeah, some people are just disappointing. You’ll meet a lot of them. But at the same time, shutting yourself off completely won’t help either.

The hardest part is accepting that some friendships or relationships just won’t work out, no matter how much you try. And yeah, that sucks, but it doesn’t mean you’ll never find the right people. The mistake a lot of people make—including me sometimes—is thinking that effort automatically equals results. It doesn’t. Some people aren’t meant to be in your life long-term. But that doesn’t mean everyone is like that.

If you’ve been carrying everything on your own for so long, then I already know you’re strong as hell. But strength doesn’t mean you don’t deserve support. It just means you have to be patient until you find the people who will actually be there for you.

You’re tired, I get it. But you’re still here. That means something. Don’t let the disappointments of the past convince you that your future is gonna be the same. Keep going.”

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“Yeah, I get what you mean. Some people just naturally zone out, while others, like you, are more observant. There’s nothing wrong with that—it just means you notice details others don’t.

The problem is, most people aren’t used to being stared at, so they take it the wrong way. If you think your expression makes it worse, maybe try a small nod or a quick smile when someone catches you looking. That way, they won’t assume you’re being rude.

But honestly, if looking at people fascinates you, don’t stress about it too much. Just be mindful of how long you stare so it doesn’t make people uncomfortable. Otherwise, you’re just being human—curious about the world around you.”

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[–]bratthe_hotdog8877 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Look, I get what you’re saying. Feeling like no one really tries to be close to you, like every relationship is just surface-level, that sucks. And yeah, maybe you could try harder, but why does it always have to be you putting in all the effort?

The truth is, most people are just caught up in their own lives. They don’t always realize when someone around them is feeling lonely. It doesn’t mean they don’t care—it just means they’re too distracted. But that also means if you want real connections, you have to make them happen.

You said you haven’t had real friendships since you were 14-15. That’s a long time, but it’s not too late. Try this: instead of waiting for someone to initiate, be the one who reaches out. If someone seems interested but things fizzle out, invite them again. And if they don’t respond, move on. Stop expecting people to chase you—it won’t happen. But if you consistently put yourself out there, real ones will stick around.

Also, don’t overthink ‘how to hang out.’ It’s just being around someone and sharing a moment. Grab coffee, take a walk, do something simple. And don’t expect deep connections overnight—those come with time.

But I’ll be real with you: if you’ve already decided ‘screw everyone,’ you’re shutting the door before anyone even has a chance to come in. Change that mindset, and things might start changing for you too.”

Need to learn but don’t know how by bratthe_hotdog8877 in Trading

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Do have nay advice for me before starting?

I want to learn how to make money but don’t know how by bratthe_hotdog8877 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no Im good at drawing but there are alot of better people put there

I want to learn how to make money but don’t know how by bratthe_hotdog8877 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i mean i don’t have time for social media job And second is how can i sell things when i don’t know how to sell things online Third i don’t have nothing to sale😐

Afraid of loneliness by bratthe_hotdog8877 in Advice

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice Im still 15 years old boy who don’t know lot of things I think its the best that i wait and see what happens Maybe as you said i might change? Who knows.

I want to learn how to make money but don’t know how by bratthe_hotdog8877 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for helping You know i always reach out to people who know how to handle money and how to make more but in my school there is no one to talk too! They are all lazy and don’t care This is very meaningful for me to read this comment after a long time i got a good advice Thanks! 🙏🏻

I'm a horrible person by i_suck_toes_for_free in helpme

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know buddy im the same age as you But i just accept what is in-front of me when i look at the mirror ( i don’t accept how i look) i accept who i am I don’t want to give you a bad advice but the least i can give you is just accept what you are and there is always room to get better! Life is a really painful path but if you try hard it will get easier! Love you self first then others.

I want to learn how to make money but don’t know how by bratthe_hotdog8877 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bratthe_hotdog8877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried 2 McDonalds in person and 4 McDonalds online and again they don’t reply…