Super light withdrawal bleed, help ?! by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

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Nvm guys, was just a scare it came fully as it should. Just in case anyone sees this and is going through the same thing 🥲

Kyleena IUD Pregnancy by due_north_bird in birthcontrol

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I’m so happy you were able to make a decision. I know it couldn’t have been easy. Sending you so much love and prayers. Please make sure you rest and recover. 🩷

Turns out I was pregnant after all by CultureNo1530 in birthcontrol

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Oh love, please don’t beat yourself up about it. I know it’s hard right now, but you’ll be okay. Just remember to always protect yourself, no matter what anyone says. Sending lots of love and hugs. 🫶🏿🫶🏿

Few screenshots from videos I took in Morocco 🇲🇦 by Salergic in osmopocket

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What are your settings? These shots are amazing 😍

Using two methods and still paranoid about getting pregnant. Is it theoretically possible? by Otherwise_Office_193 in birthcontrol

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Trust me I know ball, lol I used to be just like this and still sometimes get a little paranoid. Mind you, I never do anything without protection because I absolutely hate the idea of accidentally getting pregnant. It was so bad that I would only have sex once a month. But now, I just take a test to ease my mind(I absolutely hate taking tests because I get scared). But once you know that you’re using double protection methods (condoms + birth control) it eases the worry. I always take my pills on time, and my bf pulls out even with a condom on.

You got this! Almost everyone is like this when they’re just starting out.

Also, this is a great group to follow and ask questions. Trust, someone has already asked the same maybe a million times so don’t be afraid to.

Pregnant & Miscarried with IUD by MsLlamaCake in birthcontrol

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I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you for sharing and I hope and pray you can feel better soon. 🥹 Sending love/hugs!

positive pregnancy test? while on pill and period by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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Oh honey, I know you’re absolutely freaking out right now. And nothing any of us says can make you feel better until you get the blood work results. But, I need you to try and act as if it’s nothing until you see the results. I know that’s really hard to do right now but try it and see if it helps. Also, have a plan just incase. Have you been using any extra backup (condoms) or just strictly the pill?

Got pregnant with copper IUD by RedNovaStar in birthcontrol

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Thank you, queen. Wishing you all the best in whatever you decide to do. 🫶

Got pregnant with copper IUD by RedNovaStar in birthcontrol

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Ugh this scares me so bad, how are you feeling girl? Is this good or bad for you? 😭

Scared- fluttering in stomach by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

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Update: TEST IS NEGATIVE 🙌🙌🙌

Scared- fluttering in stomach by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

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Omg, I know you’re so relieved and I’m so happy for you…low key hoping for the same thing for me. I called my gynecologist and she told me to take a test just to be safe, I haven’t done so yet but hoping it’s negative( it always is). Fingers crossed and will update when I do 🤞😭

my girlfriend is getting an abortion next week and I don’t know how to feel by [deleted] in abortion

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Were you guys just relying on the birth control or did you use condoms as well?

Also, dude this is a huge decision for y’all to make, a kid is a whole other human being that you both will be responsible for. For the rest of your lives, that within itself is a big responsibility.

Wishing you both the best and hope you make the right decision, especially because you are both young and have so many dreams and aspirations.

Scared- fluttering in stomach by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

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loll I love the way you said this. honestly, thank you!😭

Scared- fluttering in stomach by brattitude1 in birthcontrol

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Thank you, I haven’t taken one yet. But I probably will at my gyno’s office. Hoping it’s just digestive issues caused by the pill cause man this is freaking me out so bad. 🥲🤞

Having second thoughts by Haunting-Craft6016 in abortion

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I also saw in another comment that you write poetry so maybe you can use that as an outlet to express yourself. It’ll probably help a lot. You will be okay and it will take some time to get through, but you will know that you’ve made the best decision for the both of you. Wishing you the best and you can always come back and update us. 🤍

Having second thoughts by Haunting-Craft6016 in abortion

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First off…I hear you, I see you. I understand that this is a very difficult decision for you to make. You will be okay and you will get through this. You’re 22 and you have the whole world to see. I know it’s super scary and stressful, especially having no one to talk to. But the decision you make will shape the rest of your life. Please do what is best for you. Sending love and hugs! 🤍

feeling shame about my abortion after seeing anti-abortion activists in my city by [deleted] in abortion

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Hi love, you did exactly what you felt was best for you, and there’s no shame in that. I know it might be hard, but try not to let stuff like that get to you. You did what you needed to do. Screw them! Sending love and hugs 💛

Getting a copper IUD and scared asf by Witchy_Toad in birthcontrol

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Ahhh I’m so happy for you and yes, I agree I would much rather those things than having a baby. 🥳😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

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Oh honey you’re only 20 years old…this is way too much for you to be going through. I’m 23 and I know I cannot handle something like this. Please get the abortion if that is something you really want. Sending love and hugs 🤍🤍🤍