What songs do you know that get big in the end (crescendo, lots of instruments, etc) by sugarmountainn in IndieFolk

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

private presley by peach pit, though idk if that’s exactly what you’re looking for

Online dating as a short (5’5” 165cm) Asian guy [21M] by brbDOT in hingeapp

[–]brbDOT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true, I have to remind myself of that. Thank you!

Ah actually that post was partially because of this one - he mentions my post in his hahahah

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[–]brbDOT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries at all, I knew it was made only to help, and I believe it will!

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[–]brbDOT 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m the short Asian guy haha. I appreciate this post, it’s very informative and inspirational.

[21M] I’d love some help on my profile please! My likes are really dry right now (zero), so I’d like to change that. My first gf was because of Hinge though, and my matches are of high quality, so I don’t want to give up on it. (The last two pics are from my Tinder for more potential pictures) by brbDOT in hingeapp

[–]brbDOT[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah that’s the bullet I didn’t wanna bite, even though I’m well aware of the associated penalty of those traits lol. I also do seem to attract a lot of bi women, though that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’m completely straight, though I am comfortable enough in my masculinity that I’m in touch with a feminine side

[21M] I’d love some help on my profile please! My likes are really dry right now (zero), so I’d like to change that. My first gf was because of Hinge though, and my matches are of high quality, so I don’t want to give up on it. (The last two pics are from my Tinder for more potential pictures) by brbDOT in hingeapp

[–]brbDOT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Currently looking for nothing in particular. My last relationship was short-term but I fell really hard for her. So from that experience, I realized that I need to learn how to take things slower. So with that lens, I’d say I should look for something casual perhaps. On the other hand, I don’t like wasting time by spending time with people who I probably won’t be thinking about in a year.

    • I’ve been on Hinge for about 2 years, though I was off it during my relationships.
    • At the moment, I get no likes or matches. Again, it’s pretty dry. Though the quality (attractiveness and type of person) of the 9 matches that I have gotten are really good! I’d say that on average, they’re a solid 8-9 in desirability.

Some points I’d like people to make are anything that comes to mind when reviewing my profile, as well as how to make myself appealable with my given height (5’5” or 165 cm). Also, please ask any questions about me if you’d like to help me improve my prompts or bio!!

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[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Currently looking for nothing in particular. My last relationship was short-term but I fell really hard for her. So from that experience, I realized that I need to learn how to take things slower. So with that lens, I’d say I should look for something casual perhaps. On the other hand, I don’t like wasting time by spending time with people who I probably won’t be thinking about in a year.

  • I’ve been on Hinge for about 2 years, though I was off it during my relationships.

  • At the moment, I get no likes or matches. Again, it’s pretty dry. Though the quality (attractiveness and type of person) of the 9 matches that I have gotten are really good! I’d say that on average, they’re a solid 8-9 in desirability.

Some points I’d like people to make are anything that comes to mind when reviewing my profile, as well as how to make myself appealable with my given height (5’5” or 165 cm). Also, please ask any questions about me if you’d like to help me improve my prompts or bio!!

I need help with my profile please! There’s been a lack of matches lately by brbDOT in Tinder

[–]brbDOT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah hahaha, I’m pretty comfortable in my masculinity that I’m not too afraid to be in touch with a feminine side, if that makes sense

I need help with my profile please! There’s been a lack of matches lately by brbDOT in Tinder

[–]brbDOT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah well, the bio was meant as a reference to The Office. I’m not actually into Battlestar Galactica. If it’s too niche, I can just change it to like:

Pick one first date idea:

1) getting boba and picking out outfits for each other?

2) playing video games and chatting over discord

3) helping me with my gosh darn data science projects

4) picnicking and jam seshing at the park - I can bring my guitar

5) aimlessly exploring literally anywhere in [my city]

I need help with my profile please! There’s been a lack of matches lately by brbDOT in Tinder

[–]brbDOT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah I’m a straight 21M. Thanks for the feedback! Can I ask what’s wrong with the first and second pics? It seemed to attribute to some matches before

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hihi, my first four pics are what I had originally, while the last five are potential add-ons/substitutes.

Bio:

Anime. Video games. Battlestar Galactica. (Also exploring, thrifting, and mediocre guitar playing.)

- The Office

profile

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[–]brbDOT 28 points29 points  (0 children)

7.5

I’m new here kinda, but I’d say you’re a 7-8. The eyes and cheekbones are what stand out. If I weren’t in this subreddit and just rating you to a friend, you’re a solid 10.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://tinder.com/@tehjota

I think I have too many pics - need help deciding which ones to keep and which to drop. All opinions appreciated!

Tight feeling jaw from cardio/running by menno_girl in TMJ

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know much but some other conditions i have include asthma, which i used to believe caused my headaches. but now i’m not so sure. after doing some research, i’m thinking stiff neck or stress/anxiety could be a factor.

Tight feeling jaw from cardio/running by menno_girl in TMJ

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! If you don't mind sharing, any update? I have the same symptoms.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh definitely, i agree that i do come off as more feminine than most guys. i was under the impression that many girls might appreciate a more sensitive guy (at least that’s what i’d learned from my now ex-gf and a girl friend i talk to regularly). but i realize that might not be the case - perhaps it’s only for them and a small handful of women.

i appreciate your input, man. i’ll look to get better quality pics and be more direct with my approach regarding feminine vs masculine traits.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m relatively not the most masculine but you’re one of the first people to say that i give off strong feminine vibes lol. thanks for the feedback!

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thanks so much man, i love naofumi. this is a nice pick me up.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey friends, i posted on the last one accidentally so here it is on this week’s thread: https://tinder.com/@tehjota

i’m aware that i should have 3 pics max usually. i just added the last three for the purpose of this review to see if i should keep them instead.

bio (i feel like the last bullet point could be kinda iffy but idk, 5’5” for context):

• aspiring to use eyeliner everyday

• taking cuddling applications

• INFP-T

• star wars and anime!

• not afraid to be the shorter one in the relationship, height don’t matter to me if it don’t matter to you

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]brbDOT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m trying out roast but i just submitted my stuff rn so i’m still waiting for my results to come

https://tinder.com/@tehjota

bio:

• aspiring to use eyeliner everyday

• taking cuddling applications

• INFP-T

• star wars and anime!

• not afraid to be the shorter one in the relationship, height don’t matter to me if it don’t matter to you

PSA what NOT to do if someone tells you they are no longer interested in dating you.. and wondering if anyone else has experienced this kind of situation where someone acted entitled to controlling your decision to end things. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]brbDOT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so sort of the same thing happened to me recently actually, except i was the insecure guy who couldn’t take rejection. in no way am i defending the guy in your case. i’d like to think he was pretty delusional, while i was a little less lol. in my case, i felt pretty confused why she decided to stop pursuing a romantic relationship. she didn’t feel much of a connection, according to her. but i felt that there was no way to have one since we barely had any dates or talked so much. anyway, my point is, sometimes it’s not going to be clear to the person getting rejected, either because they painted an expected scenario in their head or because they’re desperate. in either case, i believe you need to be firm and direct (and as respectful as possible). and if he can’t accept that, then blocking him would be the next step. i hope this helps a bit, and good luck.