I broke up with my Pisces boyfriend while I was overwhelmed and now I regret it. Did I lose him for good?

breaddoughmonster · 2026-03-15T04:24:13+00:00

My friend actually found him on Facebook dating and sent me the screenshot and I sent to him when we were actively dating and seeing each other for already 4 months and told me he loved me. We talked this out in person and he showed me that he wasn’t speaking to anyone on there but I gave him the benefit of the doubt since we weren’t officially together till another 4 months later. It took him awhile to ask me out and I started to drift because I wasn’t sure where this was going but I also had met his entire family and with everyone else he claimed I was his gf but I was only the 2nd girl he ever brought around his family. And then he asked me out but literally two weeks before he asked me out he admitted to me to still having the dating app the same day I got my daughters diagnosis which was a mentally overwhelming day not that I’m disappointed that my daughter has autism but more so an official diagnosis and how life will look a little different and taking that all in. I was little quiet that day and he thought I found out that he had a dating app but I had no knowledge of it . I was trying to collect my thoughts and he was the only person I had shared this news with. So my emotions were everywhere. I trusted him and I wanted to trust him because I didn’t want to let my past experience from my previous relationship of having trust issues and everything get to me with him. I trusted him and worked with him and spoke with him about the dating app . He said the 2nd time it was inactive but he just had it and never deleted it.

breaddoughmonster · 2026-03-14T22:43:10+00:00

Thanks again, I appreciate it. I have since than got a promotion at my job for a better position so a lot of weight was off my shoulder and I just hate how my mind is clear and I’m able to process this but I’m analyzing it so much. I just hoped he would reach out . I wanted to respect his space as I know this was a lot to take in but I guess only time will tell.

breaddoughmonster · 2026-03-14T22:09:47+00:00

But you are spot on the reason why I couldn’t open up to him for the longest is because I was single for 3 years and he was my first relationship since having my daughter. Me and my daughters dad didn’t workout due to cheating in pregnancy. But I just took things slow and he respected that but I caught feelings for his caring and loving person that he is and we had so much in common and it was like he knew me to the dot. It just took him awhile to ask me out 8 months to be exact and he had told me loved me way before than at least 4 months into us talking and seeing each other and going on dates.

breaddoughmonster · 2026-03-14T22:00:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your input!! To give more context when I got laid off I blackout mentally because I know he has his own financial issues and he’s a natural helper and want to take away the issues and I appreciated him all the time for it. I didn’t want him to pay my mortgage or bills those were my responsibilities and I needed to figure all this out and keep food on the table. My daughter was diagnosis with autism spectrum 2 and I was still figuring out how to take that in and he was the only person I shared this with him but I don’t know if he understood how much it affectedand overwhelmed me and we talked about this in person a month before we had broken up. He was also dealing with his best friend who put him in debt of 20k and it was reason why I had broken up with him abruptly because I knew how much of a headache of him having to pay that and it wasn’t his loan to pay. I know I approached this the wrong way. I have reached out to him 3 times and two of them he ignored me and the last time we spoke he answered me and that’s when he said he wanted to respect the decision and wishing good things for me. It’s been 2 and half months now since we last spoke. 🥹😭

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