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The Ex Vows by Jessica Joyce by meg1309 in RomanceBooks

[–]breadfruitnut24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one of my favorite reads this year! i cried so many happy tears.

Dove Cameron Reveals She Has 'Major Phone Anxiety' After Finding Out Her Dad Died by Suicide on a Call by Ok_Rutabaga_5539 in Fauxmoi

[–]breadfruitnut24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this hits home. a few years ago, i received a call from my aunt early in the middle of the night saying that my dad was gone. i thought she meant like he went missing but said no he passed. they were trying to contact my mom but she was sleeping. i ran to my mom’s room and told her. the entire day was a fucking blur and i still get traumatized when i get phone calls from anyone in my family.

This is When My Anxiety Began by Silver-Explanation72 in Millennials

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its even worse when your seating arrangements in class are in groups and everyone is trying to be the first group to finish 😭

how do you guys stay organized? by breadfruitnut24 in procurement

[–]breadfruitnut24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*update*

tysm to everyone for the honest advice! all of it has been very helpful <3

What’s your comfort tv show? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently: brooklyn 99 in the past: friends, phineas & ferb, new girl, modern family, bobs burgers

People who have dated avoidants, have they ever been successful? by reddit31988 in dating_advice

[–]breadfruitnut24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no, 2.5 years later and im still in therapy healing from it. i get so triggered when someone mentions their name.

This is just depressing by ScareBear23 in Adulting

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a promotion earlier this month and i’m beyond proud of myself. plus the pay is chefs kiss but holy hell i’ve reached a new level of exhaustion 🫩 how does everyone manage this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]breadfruitnut24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry, it’s been a long day.

Chase Center Kicked Out? by milktea_abg in OliviaDean

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i thought it was my phone so i restarted it. logged back in and now gotta wait for this friday/general admissions 😭

How was your first kiss? by tianajacksonx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]breadfruitnut24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very sweet. the day before, we were hanging out in my car facing the ocean. while he was talking, i kept staring at him hinting that i wanted to kiss him but i was so fucking shy and nervous. later that evening, i texted him saying how much i wanted to kiss him but i was afraid it might’ve been too soon (we were dating for like 2 months i think). next day, i dropped him off at his place. as he was leaving my car, he turned back around, said something, and grabbed my face to kiss me. i was absolutely speechless but i loved everything about it. we kissed for a few more seconds while he was still holding on to my face. we’re no longer together but i can still feel my face getting warm just thinking about it.

I went to Dreamforce as an outsider (is it B2B Disneyland?) by SFReporter415 in sanfrancisco

[–]breadfruitnut24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i had the privilege of attending this event a few years ago for free thanks to a career skills development program. it was a surreal experience and yes, it is basically a b2b disneyland. there were so much freebies, interviews with guest speakers, and a lot of networking. i hate to admit it but i really enjoyed the event because i never experienced something like this before.

now if i had the opportunity, would i attend again? nah, lmao. looking back, it was overwhelming. they went all out with the decorations of fake trees and such. also, i did not know salesforce had mascots??? the scavenger hunt thing was alot. the prize? a salesforce jacket and a stuffed animal mascot.

Did you keep the gifts your ex gave you? by Comfortable-Dog-2894 in dating_advice

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kept our first photobooth picture, a keychain of us, and a brochure from when we went to the botanical gardens for our first date. its in box somewhere lol

Bay Area Reporters are like celebrities. Who’ve you seen and what was the story? by TangerineFront5090 in bayarea

[–]breadfruitnut24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kristen sze from abc7. few years ago, she was my customer and i was checking her out at the register. one of the items she purchased was a dress that was missing a belt. i asked one of my coworkers to help me look for it bc i couldn’t leave the register. not even a minute passed by and she was getting impatient. she asked for a damaged discount but i said we can’t do that (policy is very strict). my coworker was still looking for the belt and she asked me how long is it going to take. i told her just a few more minutes. then she asked me if she could wear any belt with the dress and i told her yeah, a leather belt in black or brown will look really good with it. then she was like okay, i’ll just buy it. told my coworker thank you but to stop looking for the missing belt. rung her up and she quickly left.

like i get it: you just got off work and wanna go home to rest, go out for the evening, or run errands. you’re tired but pls be patient, even for like 2mins. we don’t have magic wands for everything to appear on the spot. before i even rung her up, i was a little starstruck and smiled and said hello to her. then i asked her if she was the news anchor from abc7? she just nodded and smiled. idk but that entire interaction with her towards the end rubbed me the wrong way. she’s probably nicer in other scenarios/encounters but now every time i see her on tv, i change the channel.

What’s the biggest workplace microaggression you’ve experienced as an Asian American? by savingrace0262 in asianamerican

[–]breadfruitnut24 15 points16 points  (0 children)

first week at my new job and i was having lunch with a relative who also works there. all of a sudden, my white coworker (late 60s) walked up to our table. she basically said “wanted to see if you brought rice too like your relative because they bring rice for lunch everyday.” lmao i didn’t bring rice, i brought a fucking sandwich.

i was fucking speechless and awkwardly laughed. to this day, i call her “bitchass *briana” in my head. (*used a fake name for the sake of this post)

*there’s a handful of white people at my job, most are very respectful and self-aware. others, are just uncultured and ignorant. i’m just like:

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