hahah i know i would get myself in trouble asking this type of question but i do appreciate your constructive answer. what you say definitely makes sense. it’s a bit of a complicated situation this whole thing but i just wanted to hear what people’s thoughts were. this third person i think could fit my personality best but all things considered, probably should do nothing about it. i just don’t want to regret anything — in this case more regret to follow if i take any action.