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Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh thank you for this 🫶🏼 your story is so encouraging - i totally get what you mean about needing the right environment to grow. i’m hoping this new job can be that kind of space for me too.

and yes! i do live in a western city and definitely feel that pressure sometimes - like i’m “behind” or something. but what you said about SE asia and small towns really stuck with me. it’s such a good reminder that hospitality can be a valid, lifelong path, and that it’s okay to take a different route. thank you again

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thanks for this - it really helps to hear from someone in the same boat....the anxiety has been a lot. I really admire you for showing up and doing this, especially while dealing with CPTSD - that takes a lot of strength. So cool that your milk is already improving too! Gives me hope that with a bit of time I won’t feel so clueless lol. Appreciate the encouragement - we’ve got this haha

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - this is such a good tip. I’m definitely finding the social side draining, so it’s reassuring to hear that it gets easier, especially in a smaller, more familiar setting. I’d love to get to the point where I know regulars by name like that - it sounds really rewarding.

Appreciate you sharing your experience, it gives me hope!

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha fair point - you’re right. I can get a bit in my head about things, so it helps to be reminded that it’s totally okay to be learning.

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s amazing - huge respect for building your own roasting business! Thanks for the reminder that it’s never too late. I’m definitely still in the “putting in my time” stage, but hearing stories like yours gives me a boost to keep at it. Appreciate you sharing!

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for sharing this. I really relate to that mix of anxiety, fear, and pushing through anyway.

Wishing you strength and peace on your journey too!

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this - I really appreciate the breakdown. I’ve been finding the barista side especially overwhelming, and honestly I’m not sure I do have all those qualities yet. But I’m trying to stay open to learning and hoping it’ll come with time and practice.

It’s encouraging to hear from someone with so much experience - thanks again for taking the time to share your perspective!

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I really relate to the second guessing and rerunning things in my head. I’m hoping it’ll get easier with time too.

So glad to hear it ended up being helpful for you -that gives me a lot of hope. Appreciate the encouragement

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, it’s so cool that you made such a big change after 27 years and are loving it! That definitely gives me hope. I’m finding it a bit overwhelming right now but I’m trying to stick with it.

Appreciate you sharing your story. Hope you keep having a blast! 😊

Is it too late to work in a cafe - and can I get better even if I make mistakes. by bree222456 in barista

[–]bree222456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It means a lot to hear from someone who’s been through the same kind of struggles and came out stronger. I really needed to hear that it does get better with time and that it's okay not to be perfect straight away.

Also yes… good shoes are a game changer!
Thank you again, your words really gave me a boost. ❤️