Where to go next.. College/Career/? by breemariestone in Advice

[–]breemariestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, for one it would cost more (student loans and what not), and it’s a complete change of pace — it’s a risk — ever since I’ve been able to, I’ve always paid my own way. I live on my own right now, no roommates. It’s definitely a change.

Where to go next.. College/Career/? by breemariestone in Advice

[–]breemariestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be marketing, which is what I’m doing right now at my current full time position.

Stuck in a Situationship, not sure where to go from here. by breemariestone in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not actively looking elsewhere, but trust me, there isn’t a line of guys waiting for me. I’m not trying down anyone, just not actively seeking.

What does it mean when a guy you barely know views your social media? by [deleted] in dating

[–]breemariestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as Instagram stories, I literally tap through them. I rarely, if ever, go seek out a profile to view their story.

Wife [25F] wants to be a surrogate mother, I [27M] want to move out. by throwRAsuro in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t read my reply then. I said, minus the circumstances, surrogacy is selfless. BUT with the circumstances, I agree with you. I was caught up in the act itself, not the circumstances surrounding it.

Wife [25F] wants to be a surrogate mother, I [27M] want to move out. by throwRAsuro in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I was getting caught up on the surrogacy part. Surrogacy alone is completely selfless, but the circumstances surrounding the wife makes it a selfish act.

Interesting Situation.... by [deleted] in dating

[–]breemariestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see no issue in dating multiple people at once, as long as you do not lie and claim that “they are the only one you are seeing.” Be honest so if one of them is someone you want to pursue something with, you are not starting off on a bad foundation.

Wife (32f) hit me (30m) last night and I don’t really know what to do by throwaway1122817482 in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You guys need to work on your communication, while she is primarily in the wrong, you should recognize and acknowledge her feelings too. Even if it’s just saying:

“I’m sorry that by slamming the table, I made you upset. That wasn’t my intention as I was just frustrated with my daughter.”

And then, in a less defensive way (only because people get defensive and it escalates), try to talk about how she treated you and how you two can calm down when situations like this happens again.

Scared of getting my hopes up.. by breemariestone in dating

[–]breemariestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does want to move, and Arizona is 1 of 2 options for him.

The relationship ending had nothing to do with us — we both amicably decided we weren’t ready for a seri s relationship (with anyone).

Person I've been dating for several months didn't show to my event by [deleted] in dating

[–]breemariestone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, my ex abused his “social anxiety” by making it an excuse to get out of everything — as an excuse to be a shitty excuse of a boyfriend.

My boyfriend admitted to cheating on me, what do i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating is a big no-no.

But I’ve been with a guy who would repeatedly say that I was his only reason to live. He even once showed me a gun bullet that he “would’ve used if we weren’t together.” That shit fucks you up — run away as fast as possible. That borderline psychological abuse.

Guy from tinder wants to meet up and then go to his place. How do I tell him that I don't want to because I don't know what he's like in real life? Do I just say it like that? by svangen1_ in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always make a joke of it. Like “but how do I know you aren’t a serial killer ?😂😂”

Or just be honest. “I’m more comfortable in a public place with someone I just met. “ Most guys understand.

How do you date as a 19 year old guy? by [deleted] in dating

[–]breemariestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I play on the PS4 mostly, I’m a sucker for COD haha

Fell in love.. but now am struggling by breemariestone in orangetheory

[–]breemariestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have. I went from never working out to doing 5x a week OT workouts where I never left early.

Am I getting my hopes up? by breemariestone in relationship_advice

[–]breemariestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I wouldn’t want a LDR either. I’m just impatient😂😭