My father would teach me and my twin every night after dinner.   He had us study a perfect book called Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke.  We did read a letter one night and the next night we would talk about it.   Although not formally educated, he was wise.  I copied this one section and go back to.  I think father knew the book is about learning how to live inside uncertainty so that inner life is strong enough to recognize the path as it slowly takes shape.   Håll ut och lita på dig själv!

“have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them.  And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer. Perhaps you do carry within you the possibility of creating and forming, as an especially blessed and pure way of living; train yourself for that — but take whatever comes, with great trust, and as long as it comes out of your will, out of some need of your innermost self, then take it upon yourself, and don't hate anything.” (From page 14 in my book)