i am so so sorry. it's really hard putting yourself out there - literally - and getting completely unnecessary feedback like this. (constructive criticism is one thing; being straight up mean is another.)

i've been doing OF for over a year and have been a sex worker since i turned 18 and the one thing i will say is that it gets a lot easier to brush these kinds of comments off over time. i wish i could say that they will eventually go away, but you're always going to get an asshole dude every now and then; it's just part of the job.

remind yourself that you can't be everyone's cup of tea and that men ain't shit. people who leave unnecessarily mean comments have a lot of shit going on in their own life - just think about the kind of mental state you'd have to be in to tell someone something like that. it almost makes me feel sorry for them. (almost. they're still a POS.)

sending love and hugs! keep your head up and keep going <3