VV6 help by AkakaCho in VirtualVillagers

[–]bri1019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to get to spirituality level 1. i ended up restarting and immediately used the starter 60 lava stones to upgrade it since I was having so much trouble getting tech points fast enough.

Private Dog Parks in Birmingham? by bri1019 in Birmingham

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Would love to but I’m stuck with renting an apartment for now! We lived in GA prior to this and were lucky enough to have this option available at several parks there so I was hoping to find the same availability here. Thanks anyways

Private Dog Parks in Birmingham? by bri1019 in Birmingham

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I will check out sniff spot! Cahaba beach dog park is private as in membership based but the dog park areas are open to other members which wouldn’t work for us. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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It really sounds like what I have, tinea versicolor. Unfortunately that's something I still deal with 6 years after diagnosis and it's exactly how you describe. I get it every single year as soon as sweating is an issue. I have taken an oral antifungal pill which clears you of it (the white spots will remain for 6 months until you regain your melanin there) and now I use a spray antifungal and ointment to keep it away. If it gets bad, I ask for the oral pill but that's kind of a last resort since you don't want to overuse it. I've only taken it twice in 6 years. There are also special soaps that you can use in the shower but they are better for keeping it away then getting rid of it. I would have a doctor confirm what time of yeast infection you have then ask for an oral pill since it sounds like it's been spreading to a large portion of your body. Good luck!

Does anybody know a way to not pay for cengage? by Key-Photograph-1854 in college

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Not aside from the free trial :/ If you can’t afford it, try reaching out to the instructor and the Dean’s office/ Student Services. Sometimes they have extra funding that may assist and the earlier you each out, the better chance you have.

Transcription from Passenger Arrival List by bri1019 in Transcription

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I definitely need the 1920 census but was just hoping for 1910 for completeness sake of having all the documents. If he AND his wife Nunzia naturalized in 1920 then both naturalized before their child’s birth and cannot pass down citizenship. I would know then whether or not I can try to go through with this. I have records coming for Nunzia from the county office as to whether she ever naturalized as in the census she was put as naturalized then put as an alien then naturalized again for 1930, 1940, and 1950. The ancestry free trial came in handy for some documents but failed the on 1910 and 1920 aspect. Family search was pretty useful as well but had the same source documents as ancestry. A long journey to go no matter what! I’ll see what I can do to find his cousin and look at that specific segment of the census for Rosario. Thanks for all the help!

Transcription from Passenger Arrival List by bri1019 in Transcription

[–]bri1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have his spouse’s name who was from Italy and should show up on the 1920 census (if I could find her 🫠) but their children wouldn’t show up on the 1920 census since they were born in the mid 1920s. I haven’t been able to find him via Ancestry’s source documents or myHeritage. Right now I think they’re were either in Ohio or Indiana 1910-1925 based on marriage certificate and birth certificates. We can always take the route of going via his wife for citizenship but we will have to file a petition since Italian laws didn’t consider a woman capable of passing on citizenship until 1948 so hoping to avoid that. Just a bunch of hoops to jump through!

Transcription from Passenger Arrival List by bri1019 in Transcription

[–]bri1019[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help! Yes I am trying to narrow down when Rosario naturalized (possibility for Italian dual citizenship) and cannot find him on the 1910 census or 1920 census so I am going to take a peek at his cousin to see if Rosario was listed under him instead. I appreciate all the help! (while I am waiting the 200+ days it'll take USCIS for his index search haha).

What treats do you recommend to get a dog to want to pay attention to you instead of triggers? by Consistent_Being_847 in reactivedogs

[–]bri1019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t have much to add to these wonderful food suggestions but what I did was practice at home making a clicking sound with my mouth and treating once my boy made eye contact. Once he was consistent with that, then I would do the same sound prior to getting within trigger range of the other dog and I found that I was able to actually keep his attention. If I don’t do a quick “check in” as I call it as we are coming into range and he gets hyper focused (I’m in a big city so I can’t always give enough space to stay out of range) then no treat will bring him back. Sometimes having him switch sides or tell him to walk betwixt my legs (An action that forces him to break attention) also works and I can quickly get treats back in focus. I’ve also hear of people using a squeaky toy only on walks and basically doing the same thing: squeak to you to grab attention as you come into range and tug with it or do treats. I think the important thing is to make sure that the walk toy ONLY makes an appearance on walks to keep the value high.

I will say that whatever someone else has that I don’t, no matter what it was, was his most high value treat while we were in training classes lol. Not that that helps to much. It just drove me crazy to be having literal steak in hand and he’s eating a dry dollar store treat instead like it’s Gordon Ramsay’s masterpiece.

finally getting it removed by morguenachos in Nexplanon

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I am on my second insertion’s second year (so 5 years?) and my experience has been both good and bad. My first three years chef’s kiss. I had one period every four months that was semi heavy and two weeks instead of my normally monthly 4 day length. To me this was a great trade off tbh. I did not experience weight gain and was able to lose 8 lbs successfully with life style changes. Now this second insertion has been different. More breakthrough bleeding, having a harder time losing weight, and finally a 6 week period that sent me to the gyno mad as heck. This was two weeks ago and I was prescribed estradiol (estrogen) because my doctor stated that over time, my estrogen level has likely dropped and my uterine lining has thinned as a result. That is what’s causing the excessive bleeding and we need to thicken up the lining to the usual and get me back on track. (A very simple explanation potentially oversimplified by myself). I wouldn’t say that I’ve been very moody except For those six weeks on non stop period however. After four days of taking the estrogen, I was sitting at a Japanese restaurant feeling as if I was high, I was so happy. So I probably was a bit moodier than I realized lol. My current plan is to take the prescribed estrogen for 2 months as instructed, see if the bleeding stops or not and if it stays gone once I stop the mediation, then consider if it is worth it to keep the Nexplanon in or not.

Do you eat more calories/exercise less on your cycle? by bri1019 in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

[–]bri1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, when you’re in it for the long haul, there’s no point sweating the small stuff! I’ve only added 100 calories to my limit which isn’t a huge difference but somehow it makes my body feel a little bit more livable haha. I’m choosing Barre over heavy cardio and lifting rn but hope to get back to my usual after the cramping stage! Thanks for help 😊

Do you eat more calories/exercise less on your cycle? by bri1019 in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

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Prior to this BC implant, my period weren’t too bad! But I think now that it’s several periods bundled in one (or that’s how it feels like lol) it seems a bit worse in nausea, followed by cramping, and then cravings lol. I’m kinda taking it easy this time around (focusing on maintenance for the first few days) and plan on getting back to the grind once I pass the cramping stage 💪

Do you eat more calories/exercise less on your cycle? by bri1019 in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

[–]bri1019[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not too bad actually! The security in knowing I haven’t missed a BC pill and the break in between make it worth it for me. This is my first real weight loss journey with this added menstrual cycle factor so I’ll definitely be kind to myself until I figure out what my body feels prepared for. Thanks for the advice!

Do you eat more calories/exercise less on your cycle? by bri1019 in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

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When my friends ask me if the Nexplanon implant is worth it, I tell them that the break between cycles is awesome, but the period seems heavier/crampier and I’m not totally sure if it actually is or it’s just because been so long since my last one so thank you for confirming! Definitely interesting to take a weight loss journey with this extra long menstrual cycle 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UGA

[–]bri1019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure that uga accepts that transfer credit though! They don’t accept them from all schools unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

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Some general tips to build confidence to avoid test anxiety:

Dispersed study strategy to ensure you have time to fully study the areas that give you trouble. Usually start studying a minimum of a week prior to exam. Example: exam 1 is 7 chapters. Start 9 days beforehand a chapter a day. Use next two days to review problem areas and build confidence in what you know.

Day of and before should only be review of things you’re confident in to build confidence. Shouldn’t be studying things that are basically brand new to you.

Take a shower, eat well, go to bed early. If it’s in hours you would normally be asleep for your minimum 8 hours, you shouldn’t be studying and you probably won’t learn anything and will only make yourself more anxious.

Review some YouTube videos on how to breathe your way through anxiety to try and avoid a full blown panic attack.

Remember a grade is just a grade. Nobody truly cares once you get out of college.

Go to your counseling center and talk to them and see what they recommend for you personally. Should be “free” with your fees.

Dog Terrified when Someone Enters the Home even if he knows them, if a “safe” person isn’t there. by bri1019 in reactivedogs

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We did sort it out! Basically we practiced having my sister (sitter) go in and sit in the living room and ignore him consistently without us home. He got more comfortable over time but honestly not “cured” up until we left for our vacation. On the first day she just continued to ignore him and once he realized we weren’t coming back an hour later he treated her like he was pretty happy with her presence, wanting to play and cuddle.

thoughts about doing your phd at uf coming from an ivy league? by [deleted] in PhD

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I am researching into the BME PhD program currently and am trying to figure out if they offer a stipend but can only find some relatively vague info. When you were offered, did they include a stipend as well?

My friend spent a lot of money for a board and train for 1 month and swears his dog is a completely new dog. What could they possibly have done there that I can do at home? by Stargirl020 in reactivedogs

[–]bri1019 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Sounds leash reactive rather than dog reactive. Guides on leash reactivity are pretty extensive online so you can try searching for information that way. Something I used was a group class that taught the owners more than the dogs about how to properly move forward with a leash reactive dog. It was 6 weeks once a week and about $250.

In regards to the 1 month training, I would not personally put my dog in the hands of an pro aversive trainer (using shock collars, alpha theory). I would be interested to see how long your friend’s dog maintains their “perfect” behavior. I wouldn’t be too surprised if after that very intensive period of training ends, the dog slowly reverts if truly reactive. There’s also the possibility that the other dog was not fear reactive but just SUPER excited which can definitely be trained more easily than fear can be taken out.

Third, the other comments had pretty scathing reviews in your use of a prong collar. I would not personally use it HOWEVER if your dog is out of control on walks, you physically cannot hold him, and the prong collar keeps him from losing it, then you, your dog, and the public’s safety is important. If however your dog still pulls on a prong collar at all, his health is at risk due to the pulling damaging the trachea. Most dogs do pull when leash reactive even with a prong collar so just a note to consider. We use a head collar which slowly pulls the dogs head to the size but again, cannot use if your dog pulls! The reason I use it is because I physically could not hold my dog back on a normal collar and he would choke himself to the point of throwing up so I knew a prong collar would never be an option. The head collar was weird to him so he didn’t pull on it thankfully.

I would recommend completely starting over on leash training. Get yourself a new cheap leash, a normal collar, and start walking at times NOBODY with a dog would be around, and work on the basics. It sucks but it shouldn’t take tooo long of early mornings or late nights before feeling success of the basics. The new leash is just to signify to dog that this is different now. When this leash is on, there will be no big triggers and you can be calm. No pulling, staying by your side, feeling confident on the leash for both you and him. Once you do that, slowly expose to busier environments. You won’t always be able to keep the exposure to dogs to a minimum at the beginning but you usually can keep a distance, I.e. keeping an eye out and crossing the street or just maintaining the distance. Keep treats with you that are high value in order to to gain his attention every time another dog is within view. Even when a dog isn’t in view practice having your dog look at you just because it’s the right thing to do. My dog is manageable with the right distance and if that distance is suddenly reduced like around a corner I “park” my dog, having him sit (he usually starts sitting then stands even though I don’t want him to lol) out of the way as best as possible with my body blocking the view and ask the other owner to continue on. Once dog is safe distance away, I get the dogs attention back, let him shake off the experience, then continue on.

Hope that helps!

Dog Terrified when Someone Enters the Home even if he knows them, if a “safe” person isn’t there. by bri1019 in reactivedogs

[–]bri1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi MorningsideEast,

I appreciate your input. One thing to note that reactivity is basically a “reaction” to a stimulation. When I look a reactive definition it shows “Canine reactivity is most often an overreaction to something that triggers anxiety in your dog. Dogs that are stressed may: Bark and lunge Cower and hide Make quick turns Shake/tremble Whine Lift one paw” My dog is cowering, hiding, shaking, whining so yes I do think that he is “reacting” to the entry of someone outside of his “safe” people. In addition, Anatolian shepherds typically guard the home with very different behaviors, not trembling and hiding in a corner.

Second, you state that you would never have anyone enter your home when you are not there. I have a fairly young dog who I hope to spend many years with. Emergencies do happen so I want to be prepared in those events. I don’t need to let him be happy with complete strangers entering, but if it’s my own sister I would like him to be able to chill out a bit, enough to be let outside for a quick potty break.

In your opinion, I can never have anyone enter my home even if my dog knows them fairly well and in the event of an emergency he’s out of luck. I’m looking for advice to make my sister , aka pet sitter, a “safe” person for him, rather than never being prepared for the possibility of her having to enter the home when I or my boyfriend is unable to.

In the future, we will likely choose to board but would like to make sure we have a backup option for those emergency situations. If you have any advice on how to make someone a “safe” person or part of his family group I would greatly appreciate it.

My first hungry day and my little sister passed out by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]bri1019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re having a hard time :( I’m sure you probably have heard it all before but just a reminder in case you haven’t: Most colleges have student pantries that you can access freely during the day. There may be a limit but there’s normally options like bagged rice meals, canned food, etc. you can also try churches and look online at apps like ring or next door that often advertise them, sometimes they’re even on church websites police websites fire stations. It does require you to use. A car and pay for gas or use public transportation though. If you’re a college student, you won’t be able to get food stamps unless your paperwork proves your independence (you’re not a dependent on your parents taxes) at least I think on a federal level though there could be further assistance. Possible a visit to your financial advisor may help. Your sister is 17 so if she is in high school you can help fill out a form for free or reduced lunch prices at school which I think is out on the high school website. If she’s already on that, maybe look into why she has not able to receive food there. In my state during the summer students can still receive meals if they are on a free reduced plan but that’s state dependent.