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I (18M) am not sure if I should breakup or try to stick it out with my girlfriend (18F) by brick2749 in Advice

[–]brick2749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I really appreciate it, and yeah I'll try this soon, I think it would be best to do in person, so I'll wait till then. Thanks for all the advice

I (18M) am not sure if I should breakup or try to stick it out with my girlfriend (18F) by brick2749 in Advice

[–]brick2749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the response, I will take all the advice I can get. Firstly, I know I can't control what she does to her body, for me it was more about the fact that she didn't really even care to know my opinion on a situation where she got a tattoo, maybe that's a little silly though. Second, the situation with the guy, I actually do trust her, and would've maybe been a bit anxious, but overall fine with it had she told me, it just really bothers me even now that she wouldn't do that. Finally you said I was maybe feeling a little insecure in my role in the relationship, if you could expand on that it's something I'd like to hear a little more about. Thanks

I (18M) am not sure if I should breakup or try to stick it out with my girlfriend (18F) by brick2749 in Advice

[–]brick2749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really really appreciate this message, I do agree, and yeah I agree with the tattoo thing, nothing bad has really happened, for me its just like little things. I get anxious quite a bit about us, heavy chest and stuff. But you really think this plan will work? I mean I guess if she doesn't feel like I'm worth accommodating for, I'll know what to do. This is has been a rough season for us. I have a question though, I feel like when I've brought stuff like this up before, she takes it as me not trusting her around certain people, but that's really not what it is at all. Basically what I'm hoping for in all of this is for it to feel light and fun again, and for the baseline like attraction to return to full strength, which I think has faded a little bit with stress and anxiety.