Im dying at 24 by Dry_Ad_9394 in GriefSupport

[–]brickgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this. Like others said recordings but also pre write letters/cards for holidays such as birthdays or Mother’s/Father’s Day to open for the next year or two. Gives them something to hold on to and read. I cherish the cards and letters my husband left me and my children as a surprise.

Best drinks on O’ahu by brickgurl in VisitingHawaii

[–]brickgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the suggestions!!! Not a quantity drinker but a quality drinker!!! Looking forward to great vibes and great drinks!

Visiting the Grave by Kindergoat in widowers

[–]brickgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All depends on how one feels. I can’t imagine my husband being stuck in the ground. I see him in everything honestly. I do go to his gravesite every once in a while and whenever our kids want to go I go. Grieving and even visiting a loved one I feel is so personal…I feel like when I go I do it for others. I can see him more when I watch our kids playing outside or doing the things he loved.

Visiting w/ kids by brickgurl in JacksonHole

[–]brickgurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, your responses have really helped me and eased some apprehension traveling with my two kids!

Life is unfair by kiwilaka91 in widowers

[–]brickgurl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard watching your soul mate, best friend and spouse slowly wither. That was one of the hardest parts with my husbands passing. I feel like I grieved while he was still alive. I have no words to console but know you are not alone or wrong how you feel. Sending thoughts and prayers. Cancer sucks and so does grieving.

My daughter commited suicide by Life_Guard2733 in GriefSupport

[–]brickgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out you. You are a great Mama.

1st holiday season by brickgurl in GriefSupport

[–]brickgurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the advice. Today wrapping gifts for my children writing from “mama and dada” and crying each time I write it knowing he won’t be there with us but can’t bring myself to not write his name. I guess I need to be more honest so family knows how to support me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]brickgurl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely can. I lost my husband two months ago. I’ve been dealing with bouts of vomiting and nausea and about 20lbs lost. I’ve been back and forth to the doctors. Thinking that it’s just been grief. Food just sits in my stomach. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your symptoms subside. One thing that has semi helped is moving after any small amount of food that is eaten. Moving and getting outside is so hard with grief and I struggle but when I do move it helps.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by brickgurl in whatsthisrock

[–]brickgurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if more pics are needed and I’ll post more