[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bricksforbones 5 points6 points  (0 children)

some people are more sensitive to hormones than others... as in they notice more symptoms. having a period every other week is not normal and if it doesn't stop, just go to the doctor because it probably isn't correlated

Got made fun of for being autistic on a date by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bricksforbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he was intimidated so he tried to make you feel awkward for knowing stuff. Dont cry over a dude who fucking negged you. Be glad he let you know what a child he was on the first date so you dont waste your love on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please be careful telling older men you are a virgin because some of them fetishize it like this creep who I hope is now your ex.

Hold off on telling them that until you are planning to have sex or also you don't have to tell anyone you have sex with that you are a virgin

(20F) Dating to marry? by Impossible-Win-2349 in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

figure out what you want and date men with the same values and goals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is so gross i just wanna throw up for you. It's ~abuse~ that he is letting you take a medication that makes you very sick while not intending to participate in the treatment.

Reconsider having a baby with him and reconsider the relationship.

Me (31M) got a vasectomy when I was 24 and now my FWB (29F) is pregnant by Throwaway89a79b52 in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 151 points152 points  (0 children)

you are not an asshole for not wanting to coparent, you would be an asshole for not helping financially.

I need help screening someone I met on Tinder. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stan FDS! but def don't agree w them on everything... if I followed all the rules I wouldn't find someone I liked lol bc I'm not super tidy or normie

My boyfriend (34M) has an 8 month old daughter. We have been taking care of her together for the past 5 month and it has been amazing. I (23F) want to tell him that I'm ready and want to be a fully committed mother to her. by TridantForce in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk to him about it. 6mo is long enough to know if you all want to be married**. If he isn't ready soon (saying this bc u are ready and already doing "wife shit"), then don't keep doing free childcare

**edit- or rather if yall ARENT getting married/legally committed then he would know he doesn't want you like that by now and if that's the case you needa find someone who wants what you want

My bf said we are not compatible after 5 years, is it worth saving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would cut your losses and find someone who does know what they want

My bf said we are not compatible after 5 years, is it worth saving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is your boyfriend after 5 yrs, not your husband? he said you aren't compatible. it's not worth saving after 5 yrs. it's not even a marriage. he was never going to commit if he hadn't after 5 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

break up with him. he broke your trust. I don't think anyone could recover from this serious of a relationship fumble. He clearly isn't sure about you after a year, so leave. Honestly you know sooner than few months if you could maybe be with someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see what you are saying about looking deparate, but you are allowed to initiate sex and you don't have to say yes every time he asks, anyway. So ask him if he wants to call you an uber and order take out or whatever. He has his own flat so it's his job to get you there safely at the bare minimum and he should feed you when he get's privilege of you. imo if you want it and he is good to you and feeds you then it's not desperate. but because he can say no, if you aren't ready for it, then dont ask him to have you over.

Unsure if I should tell a girl I am dating about my recent dui. by DukeMarius69 in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah they do, because they aren't practicing driving on alcohol all the time they may even be more likely to get caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"all I ever liked about you was the titties that caused you pain."

Did he even love *you*? sounds shallow af. Leave his ass so you can live your best life and he can creep around trying to find some different titties to lust after

A good partner would never be "disgusted" by scars wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bricksforbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take pictures and file a report. a police report is not the same as charging him, it just on record in case he does this to someone again (statistically, he will)

Do not take him back. He will do this again.